is this a good age to become pregnant? if it just happens?
not only are you too young but dont understand anything about pregnancy, possibly sex too
its harder than you think to take care of a child
it also affects your social life
and your school life and lowers your choices of jobs
also a single parent at 14 wouldnt be able to handle a kid by herself
and at 14 or a bit older/younger, a boy isnt exactly ready to become a father
as well as that having zsex at 14 is illegal, and if the boy your having sex with is past the legal age (16-18) depending on were you live
he can go to jail
you also probably dont know about many things like flus that children and babies get
if your newborn was to get sick, you wouldnt know what to do
a baby is a life choice, its not a toy or an accessory
itssomething you have to shape your whole life around
taking care of a child isnt easy
especially when your just a child yourself
its also a finacial burden, on average a baby costs $10,000 in the first year alone
the main thing you should focus on is sex education, to prevent it from happening
if you have safe sex and unwanted pregnancy is less likley
before you start having sex, LEARN about it
learn about as well as a boys and your own reproductive system
birth control, contraception, pregnancy and sti/stds
you can lower your chances of having an unwanted baby or a child when your just a child by using condoms properly, and doubling up with the birth control pill, and using those properly too
no. I'm 14 and have 2 babys same age(twins). I THOUGHT THE SAME AS YOU AND BLIVE ME IT ISN'T A GOOD TIME. ALL YOUR MATES FUSS AROUND YOU. people buy the babies stuff and 4get about your the 1 that is carryig it. when your walking down the street people stare. there are only a few people who will stop and say awww. how old are they?.then they'll ask how old are you?and say well youre young but you look like your doing a good job. a woman anda man in their 70s I think said that to me yesterday. it'll ruin yourschool life. you'll be stuck in all day like me. you have to get up early morning.(3am this morning). wait till ure older while you can I can't no more/
HONESTLY NO - ARE YUHH DUMBB ,
but if your like one of them pureee like mature person then yeah
but I aint telling you to go and sex up,
but say if you had sex wit a cndom provided then if it split and your parents were ok
but if you think you shud want to ava bby tlk tu your parents first so they can tlel u,
obviously your parents myte b wierdos lol and say yehh bt if dey say noo den you go with there answer they av more ex. than you remember that ok
I got pregnant at 18 and that four years older and its hard. I love my baby and have adjusted quite well but for a 14 yr old your matureity level is not that great and believe me you have to be ready for your whole life to change. I could honestly not have done this at 14. so if your not preg. then please give it serious thought before you do cause your only 14. you have your whole life ahead of you are you ready for a baby?
its not just all kisses and hugs
No, it's not a good age. You're not even old enough to get a (decent) job. Would you be able to take care of your baby financially? Are you prepared to live on your own if your parents kick you out? Are you willing to give up everything for your baby? Are you emotionally stable? I'm guessing most of those answers are no, so NO, it's not a good age. Don't be selfish and wear protection.
its not worth it! at 14 you are not mature enough to handle becoming a parent. Thats why its intended for when you are married! If you want to proberly raise a child a rough estimate from birth to right before college will cost you about $1,000,000 (not exagerating, look it up if you want). You wont have any time to yourself, ever! You should really wait until you are married!
no not at alll it can mess ever thing up I'v seen a friend go through it not good at all girl and if it just happens it will be worse if the guy leaves you and you keep it she/he wont have a father you wont have a stable home or any thing so dont doo that be safe with your life you dsont need that your still a kid and you have a long life a head of you dont mess it up now
I'm fifteen and have a baby. I love her and we struggle through but it's not an ideal situation. It affects me now and in ten years if I want to get married then my future partner would have to accept my "baggage." You won't stay with the boy you sleep with. After you have a baby (and your under 18) the average time you stay with the father is 21 days!!!
In my opinion I don't think its your time yet. I'm not saying you can't or nor am I advising you to get pregnant. I'm just saying you should think about it and put more thought to it. Its a lot of responsibility.
Girl you shouldnt be thinkiong of that im gunna be 18 when my baby girl is born and I still think im to young, dont put another life at risk just for your self... Thats a selfish act your not ready at all!
don't you have anything you want to do with your life? Something? Anything? Having a child will make whatever you want to do harder. Leave the procreation to people who truly want someone to nurture.
first of all if you are having sex STOP its not even good 4 you at that age so you don't need 2 I am only 12 years old im nt even thinkn bout that you only 2 years older than me so no
no, you are definitely too young. there's no way you could financially support this child, let alone even THINK of getting to college. seriously kid, stick to babysitting.
Hell Naw!! Stay a virgin or either wait to get pregnant! Better yet get on birth control!! Pregnancy is not a good thing until you r really old enough to take care of it!!
if it just happens? you mean if you have sex? dont say if it JUST happens because that belittles how big that really is. and no its not. dont get pregnant
Sex is meant to be saved until you are married, not before! Save yourself. God has the perfect person waiting for you!
absolutely not, having a baby is a responsibility that even grown women can barely handle let alone a child.
sex on the other hand...go for it..its your life
just use protection and birthcontol if ya want
nnnooo ... too young to take that responsibility ... trust me you don't want to ...
If you are living in 1780, absolutely. But then, how did you get Internet access?
if you get pregnant , you get pregnant
theres no real "a g e l I m I t"
Nope. your too young.
Don't waste your teen years..
lol. mikeh. Having a child at 14 is stupid.