Im messing with my friends boyfriend

Okay soo lets say my friends name is jen. Jen is going out with lets say tom. I like tom a lot and we started txting each other. It has been going on for like a couple of days. We talk dirty cause hes the only one who doesn’t mind my perverted mind. We kind of have txt sex and he told me he likes me. I really like tom and he really likes me. We were planning to have sex…oh and I’m 13. But today he txted me and said hes not ready to have sex with me because he couldn’t live with it. I don’t know what to do and if anyone finds out I’m dead and so is tom. I think we really have a thing together because we have so much in common and he tells me everything, like hes deepest secrets that he hasn’t even told jen yet…and they’ve been going out for over a month, and I feel comfortable telling him stuff. He said that I gave him 5 boners so far and jen hast gave him any yet. He likes both of us at the same time. But I really wanna win him over cause he is soo hot and I am falling for him. He is sooo sensitive but a bad a** at the same time. I really wanna get together , like boyfriend girlfriend thing, but I wanna keep my friend too. Help me pleas. Last night I stayed up to 4 thinking of him and I don’t wanna sike myself out. But I really like him and he told me several time that he likes me…and jen.
Please help me. I need it asap!