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im in trouble I really need some advice PLEASE HELP ME!!!

ok I am in verry big trouble and dont know what to do. ok heres my story I have been going out with this girl for 6 months. im 17 and a junior in high school. I met this girl over the summer. heres the problem when we met she told me she was 14 and was going to be a freshman in highschool. I didnt think it was all that bad going out with her because we were both in highschool and only 3 years different not to mention her birthday is in jan. well any ways yesterday we had sex and afterwards she told me that everything she told me was a lie. she isnt 14 shes 12 and just started 8th grade! I am really scared now she was a virgin and I just had sex with her. I’ve been to her house a couple of times and met her parents they knew how old I was and that I was going out with there daughter.and they never said any thing! I dont see how thay could do this to me. and to top it all of she has thretend that if I break up with her she will say I raped her. AND THATS NOT WHAT HAPPEND!!! I dont know what to do. im putting this as funbot because im in enough trouble as it is and I dont need someone to read this that knows me.

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Answer #1

1st of all you shuld tell the little girl that she shouldn threatin you like that or else you will break up wit her 4 sure becos thaz not tha way she should b tryna do thngz. you prob can get in trouble if she say rape but not to much becos your a minor urself. If I were you I would have a talk with the girl like “HEY I liked u, and you are a really cute and nice girl but I’m 17 years old and your just 12 and thz relationship has gone too far already and I’m sry I let it go so far but I can’t b wit u… your young and you lied to me”. She will be hurt but you can’t let her hold you bacc and try to BLACKMAIL you to keep you somewhere you don’t want to b. Talk to your PoPs or Ma if thngs get outta hand and they may have good advice in gettin you outta tha rape situation. Hope I helped a lil… -MeMe-

Answer #2

wow. This really sucks. I’m sorry for you. Get your parents involved and get them to talk to her parents. She is wayy to young and things might get worse if you turn 18 and she’s still threatening you. Be calm and understanding with her because she is still just a child ..and even though she lied to you, it was probably because she liked you and now she is scared that you will leave her..obviously she will threaten you..just talk to her. tell her that you are way to old for her [dont say she’s too young. she’ll get mad]…talk to her parents..tell them what the whole situation was and make sure to have your parents nearby because if you speak to them on your own, things might get nasty..because obviously you just had sex with their kid daughter, they’re going to be hella pissed. I dont know what else to tell you…good luck and hope things work out.

Answer #3

im sooo sryyy!!! next time ull ask her parents… and she has no proof of rape, she lied!

Answer #4

I don’t really believe this. She has friends and she has a myspace and things like that I’m sure. It seems like you could have found out from someone a little history on her and found out she wasn’t being honest about her age and all. most 12 year olds don’t look 14 either and I’m very surprised a childs parents would let their 12 year old little girl date a 17 year old nearly adult male.

things just dont add up with that story. you sure she didn’t tell her parents you were like 14 or 15 ? and they were okay with that age difference and after y’all had sex. maybe y’all got into an argument or something and she said she will say you raped her if you break up with her in the attempt to keep you with her?

I don’t know your story just doesn’t add up to me.

Answer #5

Wow, maybe you should talk to her parents first and tell them that your sorry but you can’t keep dating their daughter because she at first told you she was 14 and was going to be freshman in highschool but then it turned that she was only 12 and just starting 8th grade and because of that you can’t date her because she’s too young for you plus she lied. and that you wanted to tell them personally cause she told you she would say you raped her if you break up with her. That way you won’t get in any trouble if she says you raped her cause at least her parents know it isn’t true so nothing bad could happen to you like go to jail =]

Answer #6

I dont know what to say. sorry this happend.

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