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I dont wanna be his toy

I’ve had this on again off again kind of relationship with this guy for the past couple years. it first started out when we were just tweens with the flirting and hand holding and then it progressed to kisses on my cheek then to on the lips then some touching and now weve gone to third base. I really like this guy, but he gives me mixed signals. like, we’re friends, with benefits, but in his eyes, am I a whre? just a plaything to him? I honestly hope not. he hints at me that he wants to go all the way, though I’ve turned him down everytime. I dont want to be just another girl, because hes an attractive guy and hes got a charm about him, so its obvious hes been with other girls, but I have no idea how far hes gone with them and I honestly dont want to think about it. now, everytime I see him, I want to just throw all my morals out the window and jump him. I have to rein myslef in pretty badly. he makes me feel better than anyone ever has, is it just the fact that he doesnt frighten me, because I’ve known him for so long and we have a history, or am I truly a whre??? what do I do?

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Answer #1

Angel is right, I had the same thing happen to me and at one point it was so bad, I’d drop everything I was doing to go be with him. We’re still good friends, but I left for a little while and he kinda realized we had to stop. In your case you probably cant get away so heres an idea, start thinking of him as your brother when you have these feelings, it worked for me, hopefully it’ll work for you. Guys with that kind of charm usually end up down other girls pants, sorta like another notch on the belt… dont be that next notch.

Answer #2

on again off again kind of relationship with this guy for the past couple years.>>that should tell you that he takes you for granted. Never do anything physical with a guy your not in a loving, commited relationship with, because yes, he will see you as easy, and easy girls dont get boyfriends. They just get used!!

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