Funadvice Logo
Explore Join
More Sex Questions

I do not cheat

ok im 14 and me and my boyfriend were about to have sex until he noticed my skin was already broke {he had sex before me} so now he thinks I cheated on him and im a virgin and I tried explaining to him that you could break your skin by a lot of ways like riding a bike and horse bake riding even by simply doing the splits how do I explain to him I never did it with anyone else or I didnt even cheat on him

Become an Expert →
Answer #1

ok so basically, I know you don’t understand reason…SO I’m not even gonna try…1st of all, just let him know that it happens and if he can’t take it, COME ON he’s a guy and he should be strong…if he’s scared of that, then how can he handle work and a life…2just to make sure I am being responsible, honestly and really TRUST me on this one, it’s not worth losing it at that age…because when you think back on this, this is your innocence…something you never can get back no matter how many times you try to…honestly think about where you stand and KNOW what you’re doing…hope this helps

Answer #2

Well first of all. Dont really think both of you are ready to have sex. Cause if you are auguring now. Wait until later. Trust me, just wait. Better keep for that special someone like on your wedding night. Cause 14, you still have a long way to go. Do you really think that both of you are going to last that long and get marry. If not he aint the guy. And if yes then he can wait, if he truly loves you. And you can wait as well :)

Answer #3

well your right the hymen can be broken by many things and its very COMMONLY broken by those things long before a girl has sex for the first time it can be brken by things like sex toys, vibrators, fingers, tampons, horse riding, bicycal riding and even other sports and exerscise some girls are even born without a hymen so just tell him all that

Answer #4

why’re you trying to act so adult?? really you’re making yourself look more childish by thinking you’re smart enough to know what you are or could be getting yourself into.

Answer #5

just tell him that, make him loook it up on the internet if he wants real prooof goood luck :)

More Like This
Advisor

Sex

Sex education, Intimacy, Relationship advice