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How to get my boyfriend to stop pressureing me

How do I get my boyfriend to stop pressureing me to give him a blow job? {with out braken up wit him?} ok so he has fingered me and I have givin him a hand job… So the next step is oral and I honestly dont want to. He asks me every day why I dont or if I will and every time I tell him no it is a type of sex and I am waiting to do that! Yet every day he still asks… How do I get him to stop? I feel pressured and tempted!

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Answer #1

dont do it whatever you do. I wont have oral with my boyfriend either, and he doesnt really even want oral. the day I toldd him I wont give it to him he automatically let it go. if your boyfriend truwly cares about you, then he wouldnt pressure you into that sort of stuff. you should be sexually active with someone unless you really love that person. he really shouldnt pressure you into doing that stuff, and its really good that youre standing up for yourself. most girls cant stand up for themselves. good for you [: but still, he should really back off about it. if he pressures you into it, then hes really not worth your time. but if you know for a fact that youre not wasting your time with him, then just sit him down and say that youre not comfortable doing that, and he needs to respect your decision. oral sex is disgusting in my opinion, and I couldnt give someone oral sex. explain to him that you really cant do that, because you want to wait, and tell him that if he really cared about you, he would wait with you. I hope I helped [: good luckk!

Answer #2

ohhh boy, this boy’s a LOSER. I know you are emotionally invested in him, but this is the type of boy who will leave you HEARTBROKEN! you are not deserving of this kind of pressure! if you don’t wanna do it, you don’t have to!! trust me, I’ve been through this, haha. if I were you id throw a box of kleenex and a porn magazine at him and tell him to fuck off. he is SO NOT WORTH IT.

Answer #3

Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for standing up for yourself. I totally agree with ahhh up there. you don’t have to do it, and if he keeps trying to get you to do it after you’ve told him you don’t want to, he’s a dirt bag. its really that simple. if you talk to him about it and make your point clear, he should back off you, but if he doesn’t, then you should find someone willing to treat you like the little lady you are. good luck =)

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