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How do I move out of my moms at 16 because im a lesbian?

I want to move in with my dad who doesn’t have custudy because my mom disagrees with me and my girlfriends relationship because we are both girls… what can I do?

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Answer #1

If he is fit to be a father (not a raging alcoholic or drug addict…), then he has the right to have custody of you. Since you are 16, and not 3 years old, you have a choice and a say in the matter. If he (like ty said) will fight for custody of you, and you are on his side, then there is not much that your mother can do about it. I suggest you talk to your mom about everything beforehand, ask her why she has a problem with your relationship with your girlfriend, and if you can come to an agreement about it all.

Answer #2

Lets assume he is not a ‘raging alcoholic or addict’…have you talked to HIM about moving in?? That would be the first step…knowing that was ok with him.

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Answer #3

You ask your dad to go back to court and fight for custody. At 16, unless there’s a really good reason why you shouldnt be with him (e.g. if he’s got a serious drug problem, he’s abusive, or he just doesnt have space for you), it’s unlikely they’ll deny his custody request.

Answer #4

I support you and I really hate homophobic people, move out to your dad. say to your mom “ Mom exept me for who I am and love it.”

Answer #5

since you are 16 you should be old enough to choose which parent you want to live with

Answer #6

pack your bags and leave.

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