How do I make my boyfriend jealous?

My boyfriend of 7years lives in and work in Upington and I live in welkom with our 19months old daughter.he paid half the lobola money asked from him but we have ayear and half without any intermacy in our relationship not because I dont want him.he rejects me,he hasn’t touched me like a man should his woman in a year,he says I’m a sex addict and that I can’t get enough.the last time we had sex was on 14december 2008 and it does’nt bother him and he says it should come naturaly to him to want me.Please help me out,how do I deal with this problem,how do I make him see what he’s loosing out on.

Answer #1

If your relationship has reached the point where you think you need to make him jealous to get his attention, then it’s already severely damaged.

Do you really think this will make it better? If anything, the attempt will make him angry and you’ll have efficiently ended your relationship with lack of common sense.

Obviously, something is wrong here. The two of you need to speak to a marriage counselor (you don’t have to be married to qualify). See if you can get to the root of the problem. This relationship is on its last legs, don’t do something stupid and push it over the edge.

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