How can people be so sick?!!?!?

Im 14 and I was raped 3 times when I was about 5 and 1 once when I was 13 by my brothers and no one in the world knows (besides who ever reads this). I have a little sister who is 4 almost 5 and I am like 95% sure my brother has been doing some ‘things’ to her. I am sooo scared to tell anyone!!! And I can help but feeling it my fault and only my fault…I am sooo stuck and I reallly need help so could someone please please help me thanks so much

Answer #1

freshtilldeath… pick up any textbook on sexual abuse and you’ll actually see that’s the norm. Just because it doesn’t say anonymous doesn’t mean it isn’t. You can be whoever you want on the internet.

They way I look at it is just that, they’re sick. Something is mis-firing in their brain to make them abnormal.

Predators prey on victims who will stay silent. They often misuse trust, fear and embarrassment to get what they want and usually the abuse is less about sex and more about control.

You need to speak up about both the ones who did it to you and what may be going on with your sister now.

After I “told” and went to court and put the guy(my adoptive father) away for 120years family members started coming out of the woodwork and saying they had suspensions that things were going on. I was so scared and confused I never came forward till I was an adult… if someone would have asked me “is this going on?” I would have said YES! Help me!

So it is your responsibility as a survivor to do something about these incidences. Even if it never comes to a head, it’ll be noted for future behavior. My perp had a previous history in the 80s that was swept under the rug.

Talk to an adult you trust and go to the police.

visit rainn.org for more help and info.

xox Sika

Answer #2

Damn, I totally understand the way you feel…the same thing happened to me you know except it was only one o fmy brothers and I never did anything about it because I was so scared that nobody would believe me or that my parents would hate me so I kept my mouth shut but I mean I was a kid I was confused you know It started when I was about 4 or 5 and it stopped around the age of 9 I was a kid and all I knew is that it hurt really bad and I didnt want it to hurt my sister I didnt want that sick bastard touching her like that it make me hate myself for It I turned into a loner and I never talked to anyone about it my sisters made fun of the way I dressed becuse I always had a jacket on and I never wanted to looked attractive or nice I think it kind of made me feel safe but I hated it. And now I dont think about it as much but it still hate that par tof my life and I advise you to tell the police because your sister shouldnt have to go through that you cna do it dont be scared dont let them get away with it please dont make the same mistake I did.

Answer #3

not to be a dick or anything but I call BS. you’re too afraid to tell anyone, and yet you post it on the internet for the world to see?? and if you were anonymous that would be one thing… but youre logged in and there is a freaking picture of you.. im gonna call BS on this one, and if its real, then that sucks, but asking strangers on the internet is not really the wisest solution…

Answer #4

Rape or sexual abuse is never the victims fault, no matter what the circumstance. No one on FunAdvice is qualified to give you professional help, and that is what you need. Tell someone so you can help your sister and also get the help you need to cope and heal. I am so sorry. This is not your fault. Your brother is sick and even though he did something awful, I know you don’t want him to get in trouble or rip your family apart but you need to identify the problem before it can be fixed. Your brother needs help so this cycle of abuse can be stopped. The first step is to tell, no matter how hard that may seem, you have to. I wish you all the best, hon. Take care and let me know if you ever need someone to talk to.

Answer #5

It’s not your fault that you were raped the first time, but because you chose not to notify your parents to ensure that it wouldn’t happen to you again or your little sister period, it may very well be your fault, depending on how you look at it. You need to go to your parents and let them know. This should not be going on, and will not go on any longer if you get help.

People can be so sick, if you let them. You are letting them, in a sense.

Good Luck, I hope you go through with it and let them know.:)

Answer #6

If you suspect your brother is doing somthing the smart thing to for your SISTERS SAKE is to tell the police so that these sick boys can get the hell out of your home EXUSE my language but that makes me mad…not at you but at your stupid brothers I would honesty strangle them…but dont do that tell the police or your mother and if your mother doesnt beieve you then tell the police and they will take action.

Answer #7

Okay thanks you guys sooo much your really helping me :)))

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