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I don't think she can understand that he's not 6 and that he's 16. She calls him all little pet names like babe and hunny and darling when I'm with him and texts him all the time when he's out. She just cant effing let go! It pisses me off so bad! I just want to shove it up her over time, with little things to show her he's mine not hers, any suggestions?
Your both only sixteen. She's his mother and will always be. So she calls him pet names, I'm 33, and my mother will every so often call me a pet name. It's just a motherly thing. Me and my wife have 15 yr old and we call her a pet name. Parents love their children and want to be there for them. Sometimes it's harder for them to let go, and other times they have no problem. But to parents their children will always be their children no matter how old they get. Just as yours will always be yours. If you start trying to annoy his mother then that will cause unnecessary problems in your relationship. Instead try to be friends with his mom, and get to know and understand her better. Maybe you'll see what she sees.
don't. because if you serioulsy like your boyfriend, you don't want to put him through that. my mom HATED my ex boyfriend. when we were going out, little things bothered her. and I heard about it all the time. if you start trying to annoy your boyfriend's mom, then she's going to tell him how much she hates you. and hearing that 24/7 will get annoying. it wouldn't end well for you. talk to him about it. don't complain about his mom so much as . . when you're out and she texts him, take his phone or something, do SOMETHING to demand his attention. but don't go after his mum. bad idea.
atleast she is only your boyfriend's mom I have mother in law that she ommits my duty as hif wife I cant do love stuff...bla bla. my plan was is we hangout all day I dont have chance to see her for the whole day plus do something that makes him attracted to you like stay at your house so that he comes for u :D and like that and when you r with him turn off his phone and say I want to spend time with you not with you with your phone.
I tried to understand my mother in law she doesnt believe in me and she thinks me and my husband will get adivorced lucky for her now I might get and even tho I love him I'd die for him but I've been getting lots of bad stuff from his mom and him she poisoned him and if I come back to him my pride will be hurt I hurt my pride for him manytimes that is his turn not mine.
Don't piss her off, just beat her at her own game. It's simple. Whatever she does for him, do better. Never be sour towards her, your man won't respect that.
Its his mom the woman who gave him life you have to deal with it
