How can he move out and not get in trouble at 17?

My friend is 17. His parents told him he can move out and live in a homeless shelter for all they care. so the other day he told them hey im leaving im moving in with so and so and his parents flipped out on him. they refuse to let him leave now even tho they told him he could. things got so bad at his house that his grandparents had to come and get him and he’s staying with them for a few days hopeing that things will cool off at home. he wants to get emmancipated. They people he planned on moving in with had him a job that pays pretty well and they were gonna help him pay for things as he needed them. His parents wont let him get a job because they dont want him to be able to have the money to support himself. how can he get out of there without getting in legal trouble? could he run away and the cops not do anything about it since he’s 17? btw, we’re in the state of Wisconsin. what can he do?? he’s not gonna make there much longer! they wont let him get a car, his liscense, a job, a phone, anything! he’s not allowed to go anywhere. he cant use the house phone. he’s not allowed to hang with friends. his parents are insane! is there anything we could do about mental abuse? please help! :(

Answer #1

been in the same situation! in florida though. same thing basically happened, I left at 17 and yes you can get in trouble. I was told I wasn’t allowed to leave or be emancipated. I left because I knew my parents would call the cops and I would have a way to report the abuse( mine was physical also though) so while talking to the cops I explained the situation. from what they told me they would investigate it and if I could prove what I had said and also prove the place I was going to would be better off for my personal well being we could look into getting emancipated. all of this worked out but while they were investigating I was stuck at home. in my case though, I was very close to being 18 so I never waited for the cops. I just waited a few more weeks and the day I turned 18 left in the middle of that night. been on my own ever since. I just turned 19 this past october so a little over a year. it is tough to deal with but honestly it has been better then being home that is for sure! good luck to your friend. id have him at least talk to the cops about it or better yet the school resource officers if you have one.

Answer #2

Wow. I would hate to have parents like that. Call up like work force services,I’m not sure where one would be out there,but they work with the goverment and you could get some answers through them on what to do. Or even call the cops or somthing..

Answer #3

I am in the same situation and my parents are equally trict and abusive,well the one i live with

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