HELP WHAT SHOULD IDO?CONFUS?

MY NAME IS ADRIANA,I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR SIX YEARS,MY MARRIAGE IS GOOD,OR OK,BUT SOMETIMES THINGS CAN GET BAD,ANYWAYSI NEED TO KNOW SOMETHING,IM CONFUS ABOUT SOMTHING?THERES THIS GUY THAT I HAVE KNOW SINCE JR. HIGH SCHOOL,AND WE KENW EACH OTHER IN HIGH SCHOOL TOO.ANYWAYS WE HAVENT TALK IN SIX YEARS,SINCE I HAVE BEEN MARRIED,HE WAS MARRIED,BUT HIS MARRIAGE ENDED THREE YAERS AGO,HES MOVING TO TEXAS,BECAUSE HIS EX-WIFE IS MOVING THERE WITH HER NEW BOYFRIEND,ANYWYAY MY BESTFRIEND CALLED ME OUT OF THE BLUE,HE WANTS TO START HANGING OUT TIL HE HAS TO GO TO TEXAS,HE HAS ALWAYS SAID WE HAVE JUST BEEN FRIENDSFOR MANY YEARS,ANYWAYS I TOLD HIM ABOUT MY MARRIAGE,THAT SOMETIMES THING ARE GOOD,AND SOMETIMES THERE NOT,HE CALLED ME TUESDAY WE HUNG OUT AGAIN,BUT THAT MORNING HE TOLD ME ON THE PHONE,BEFORE WE GOT TOGHTER,TO HANG OUT,HE TOLD ME I NEED TO PUT MYSELFFIRST,THEN MY TWO KIDS,HE TOLD ME HES NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN,BUT HE SAYS THAT MY BOYS AND I SHOULD COME FIRST,SINCE SOMETIMES MY HUBAND CAN BE MEAN TO ME SOMETIMES.IS HE SAYING THIS JUST TO BE A FRIEND,OR DOES HE CARE FOR ME?WHEN WE SAW EACHOTHER ON TUES DAY,HE HAD A HAIR CUT,AND HE SMELL GOOD,AND LLOK NICE,IM ONLY TRYING TO BE HONEST,BE CAUSE IM CONFUS?SHOULD I FOR GET ABOUT HIM,AND JUST GO ON WITH MY MARRIAGE?TRY TO WORK THINGS OUT WITH MY HUSBAND?I TOLD MY HUSBAND WE WHERE HANGING OUT,HE DIDNT SOUND TO HAPPY,IM ALWAYS HONEST WITH MY HUSBAND,BUT AT THE SAME TIME HE HAS PUT ME THROUGH a lot,FROM CONFUS?HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO? P.S. HES MOVING TO TEXAS BECAUSE HE DOESNT WANT TO LOSE HIS SON,HIS ONLY SON