How can I get over my ex who's dating someone else?

I dated my ex for a year and then he broke up with me and came back and we dated for a month and broke up with me for the same reason he said that we both have changed and we really didn’t get to talk all that much because he was working so much. I miss him so much I can’t get him off my mind. When he broke up with me he promised we would still be best friends and he’d still tell me everything like he use to but since we have been broke up I feel like he has changed and is no longer the guy he use to be and we don’t tell each other anything about our problems or anything I feel like he has no time for me or anything. Also he is now dating another girl now and I hate this girl so much because she caused so many problems between us when we we’re dating and didn’t like the fact that we we’re together I feel like she got what she has always wanted him all to her self now. I told him that I found out since him and I haven’t been dating that 3 guy’s like me and I told my friend that I think it’s time to move on now and he got really upset over a comment I made and said well why should you care you moved on now but just the night before I cried to him about how much I miss him. But it seemed as if he got upset because I told him 3 guy’s like me he was like ok whatever bye I just don’t get it. I don’t know what to do try my hardest to get over him and move on? or just wait to see what happens please give me your advice.

Answer #1

its great that u get everything out of ur system. this is my advice. keep ur friendship strong with him. both of u can still be great friends, just not emotionally attached, move on to other guys. u said that 3 guys are after u. if u like them, then no harm in geting to know some of them better. as for the girl which u dislike thats going out with ur ex, ignore her. no point letting her get the better of u and make u feel all upset just because she’s going out with ur ex. chances are, she’s getting a sadistic pleasure looking at ur sorrowful plight. dont give her that pleasure! move on to other guys and show her that ur better than her by moving on in ur life. u might not get over ur ex just yet, but find other guys, and u will get over him soon enough. good luck!

Answer #2

Is this the same guy that only wanted you for sex?

Answer #3

no it’s not the same guy who only wanted me for sex

Answer #4

I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH! I HAVE THE SAME SITUATION. WHAT I DO TO HELP ME THROUGH IS KEEP MY MIND OFF OF HIM THE BEST THAT I CAN. YOU NEED TO SEE OTHER GUYS. IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS GUY YOU WONT GET OVER HIM FOR A LONG LONG TIME. ME AND MY boyfriend WERE TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS AND ENGAGED TO BE MARRIED AND THEN WE SPLIT UP ABOUT 4 MONTHS AGO AND HIS NEW girlfriend IS PREGNANT WITH ANOTHER GUYS BABY AND HES going to TAKE ON THE ROLE OF DADDY. THAT DRIVES ME INSANE. WE STAYED IN CONTACT FOR A FEW WEEKS BUT HIS girlfriend FORBIDS HIM TO TALK TO ME AND HE IGNORED THAT FOR A WHILE BUT IT KINDA FADED. WE DONT TALK MUCH ANYMORE BUT I STILL LOVE HIM VERY MUCHAND I THINK THAT YOU CAN DO THIS JUST LIKE ME. CERTAIN SONGS BOTHER ME REAL BAD AND I STILL CRY a lot. BUT I JUST GO OUT AND TRY NOT TO THINK OF IT. EVEN THOUGH I STILL DO IT HELPS THAT HES THERE IN MY HEAD. IT KEEPS ME SANE.!! DONT GIVE UP THOUGH IF YOU REALLY LOVE HIM NEVER GIVE UP ON SOMEONE YOU CANT GO A DAY WITH OUT THINKING ABOUT. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP GIRL AND BE STRONG!

Answer #5

If you hate his ex try reading I HATE HIS EX by Alex Cooper. I had loads of problems with my fiance’s ex and I have now resolved them thanks to the advice in this book! You can get it on Amazon! Definitely worth a read! :)

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