When a guy blames his gf for everything even when its clearly his fault is that a sign of mental abuse?

Yes, that is a sign of mental abuse and that you should get out of the relationship before he totally destroys your confidence and self worth.

He sounds pretty ‘insecure’ as a person to me if that is the case, and Miguel is correct…. if you let him get away with things now the future will not be bright..

Ohhh no, no,no lol its not me who im asking this question 4, i keep trying to get my friend to come to this website. so she tells me 1.he says she never sacrifice for him. which is a lie because, she has to pic him up, take him to work, she gets in trouble almost everyday for coming home late, 2.he gets mad at her over little things like if shes 2mins late picking him up he gets a little attitude and claims she doesnt love him. 3.she says if she leaves him everyguy is going to be like him.and she is only staying with him because hes cute!

yes it is mental abuse. I just got out of a relationship like that. girl please get out before it gets worse.

i keep trying to explain to her but she wont listen. I just wish you all could call her up or something. cause she wont listen to her friends smh (read what i wrote above)

he sounds extremely controlling. and trust me when i say my ex was like that, after 4 years of emotionally beating me he decided it was time to really beat me. && your friends man will do the same. its just another way to control us.

And i tell her this over and over, but she keeps saying the only reason im with him is because he’s cute, i think if i leave him every guy will be the same, and because she doesnt want to be lonley. How cn i convince and show her he is doing this cause she always blames herself everytime he has his little temper tandrums? she also said she lost 12lbs,cnt sleep, and is angry all the time.

Oh my God..in my case I had a hard time to leave my guy because of love but right now we had a war & we are away from each other..i hope i can get over him..i hope also that God will give me a sign to stop loving this guy..i can feel that he still love me but right now he’s mad because i went to a place with my brother and cousins but he didn’t approved it..we are in a relationship this year for 7 years already..huhuhuhu..that’s why it’s hard for me..tsk tsk tsk..

girl i was in one of those relationships…and it was my first ever…i stayed with him for two years and after the first year he became physically abusive…i think u shuld definititely warn ur friend if she doesnt get out this guy mite easily take the abuse to the next level

It’s just that he’s immature and neads to grow-up. When someone wants to always put the blame on someone else they’re usually trying to justify their wrong doing.

Yes.

I Dont know , cuz im in the same position .. he blames me then he apologizes and i forgive .. its only if he kept doing it ! that is mental abuse