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how do i let the guy i like no i like him when he already has a gf without scaring him away ? he doesnt see her that much and hangs out with me more anyways. he also flirts alot and i definitly flirt back. i havent told him i like him even though its obvious i do. i want to tell him so maybe he can consider dating me and dumping his gf but how do i do that ? please help
Why do girls always want someones elses man? It doesnt matter that he hangs out with you more than his gf, or flirts(alot of guys are like that) The point is>HE HAS A GF!! If he was you're bf, would you want him flirting with other girls? I dont think id want a guy like that!! Just because he hangs out with you more, and not his gf doesnt mean he doesnt love her. Why arent you his gf then? Think about that!! Id be pissed if another girl wanted my man for whatever reason, and wanted to know how to get him!! Hun>find yourself a guy thats not involved with someone. Then nobody will get hurt. Dont be selfish and just think about yourself here, think about that other girl(his gf)! She hasnt done anything to you, so maybe you need to back off!!!
If he has a girlfriend & he is flirting with you, then he doesn't seem too serious about her. I'd suggest you say it bluntly although this guy doesnt sound too much of a settling down kind of guy. If you want to tell him, go with your gut. You claim you make it "obvious" so it may not come as such a shock to him & scare him away. Good luck.
