Growing up..

Good on you, I went through mostly the same thing too, though I never had a boyfriend when I was that age. I stay away from all that crap, even now, and I have great friends (and a great boyfriend) who feels the same way. It’s good to be your own person and have your own individuality. It’s kinda sad to see when some of your ‘friends’ becoming a trend-follower and smoke/do drugs/etc just to be like everyone or just because it’s ‘accepted as the norm’. It’s good to have some principles in your life.

I had the excate same exprience my self don’t do what other people are doing just to look cool or act cool don’t even let anywan pressurise you eitherr having a boyfriend is wll not about having sex its about having a strong relationship to show your love for each other if thats all a boy is looking for hes a tOtal jerk just find new friends who feel the excate same way you doo

good luck :) X

You shut yourself from the world too much. Sure everybody as sex, smoke, or drink but that doesn’t mean you have to do it. You just have to keep on making your own decisions and stay above the influence. I do everything but that doesn’t mean I’m a bad person or anything thing like that. And it also means that not all people who do as I do are evil and will harm you. You just have to face the fact and think optimistically. Rather then think that everyone will drag you down and force you to drink and smoke. Rape is another case, but anyway you make it seem as if guys are the most perverted creatures in the world. Maybe we are but girls are just as perverted. I talk to a lot of chicks and firmly I look for relationships and stuff like that and not just sex. A lot of chicks I talk to come out of the woods with all this crazy perverted and horny side of theirs. I mean they’re not sluts either but they accept their feelings and hormones. It’s up to you to accept, sooner or later you’ll find a group who are as abstinent as you.. And you can’t let no one else bring you down, if they tell you something negative it’s probably because they’re insecure with themselves.