Does my personality sound suckish or please answer please

Well here’s the thing, I meet guys for the first time and they think I am amazingly beautiful, I think I am so ugly it’s not even funny. Well I’m fun to hang out with, at least my friends say so, but why is it that after they get to know me they start to find me unattractive, I’m not really stuck up or self-centered. I have always had a low self confidence and low self esteem because of horrible things that happened in the past, I’m really sweet but what am I doing wrong why is this I wonder am I really that ugly? I don’t know I’m so confused =/

Answer #1

I agree with everybody, you just need the right guy, k?

Answer #2

only 1 thing SELK CONFIDENCE!!

Answer #3

The reason why guys find you attractive then suddenly go off you is because they are users. They tell you you’re beautiful to get in your pants- when it doesn’t work they give in and leave you alone.

This does not mean you are not beautiful though. You are as beautiful as the next person and don’t let anyone else tell you any different. The only reason you can not see your beauty is because of your insecurities and low self esteem. This will be overcome some day. I have just started exercising and think you would benefit from it too. It helps with everything, stress, nerves, and even self esteem in the long run as you are being positive and healthy.

You will find the right boy one day. He’s out there waiting for you :)

Answer #4

Beth liveyourlife sounds right and is reasonable. Many boys may only tell you that you’re beautiful to befriend you and harm you. But like you said, you have a low-self esteem and little confidence. People may want to talk to you and your constant negative remarks about yourself may bring them down too. You know it doesn’t matter what people think, and only matters how you feel about yourself. But sometimes, just accept the compliment so you can feel good about yourself. There’s no reason to be sad about your looks, I should know. You just have to be comfortable wit how you look and love who you are.

Answer #5

guys don’t like a girl who isn’t self confident and has low self esteem… they find that unattractive… you should work on your self esteem and confidence… I know it’s tough, especially if you have a rough past… I’ve been there… it was actually my art teacher who helped me with my confidence a lot… sometimes it takes a while to find that one thing that’s gonna help but if you keep yourself open to it, it’s bound to find you… guys totally dig a girl who is happy with herself and has good self esteem… so good luck, I’m sure you’ll be fine…

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