Does it matter?!?!?!

No, race shouldn’t matter. If it is someone who treats you well, maintains himself well then that and the fact that he makes you happy is all your parents should be concerned with. I have a 14 year old daughter and my husband and I have discussed this whole issue several times over the last 14 years. Our decision has never waivered–as long as she is happy, then that is what is our greatest concern. I am so sorry you have to live among such beliefs–obviously, you have remained more open-minded than what you have been taught so far in your life. And obviously, he must be very light skinned or looks tanned for her not to know until she was told. Sometimes when we speak, we know just as soon as the first word is out of our mouths—we know a mistake has been made. ); Truthfully, the only thing I can suggest is to try and remain really good friends. The more you push, the harder your parents are going to shove. You could try talking to them about this guy, but I don’t think it would do much good. As a parent I don’t feel that I should/could give you advice that leans towards rebellion. If you two can remain friends then maybe they can see the happiness he brings to you. If not, if you are able to remain friends until you are both 18 and can move out or go away to college. Then, you would be free to make your own decisions. This one was a tricky one dear, hope I was able to help! If I think of anything else–I’ll get back with you! Really hope this helped dear! Twilightmom (•: