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Does he really like me?

Ok so im 14 and I have a boyfriend thats 18 and we are moving very fast, we had only been dating 4 like a week when he fingered me. I had never had this done before and afterwords I totally regreted it, it felt so wrong. We kept doing sexual things but not as sexual as that, and now I have told him that we need 2 slow down and he says ok. But he was coming over like everyday and calling me all the time, and after I told him that I want us 2 slow down the next day he didnt want 2 hangout with me like usual. He still called me but hes acting a little wierd now, he also admitted that there is a bet with his friends that we will have sex before 3 months, and I told him no that wont happen and then he said the bet is now a yr and I said I don’t know. He told me that he wont wait a yr, now I know 4 a fact that this guys a virgin, but does he only want sex from me. O and he tells me that he loves me and weve only dated 4 like 2 weeks. Please help!!!

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Answer #1

slams foot on brakes wait…THIS ASSHOLE TOOK A BET THAT YOU’D BED HIM IN UNDER 3 MONTHES?!

why the hell are you still with him?! have some dignity and move on. he’s too old and he’s using you. not to mention if you did have sex with him it’d be illegal!!!

Answer #2

Thanks 4 all your advice, I am going 2 dump him. thankyou 4 helping me see what a jerk he is, and I assure you I am usually not this stupid when it comes 2 guys its just that I’ve liked this guy 4 a couple of months and I really thought he was a nice guy. anyways thanks 4 your advice!

Answer #3

I strongly agree with angelfire2708 I couldnt have put it better myself you should take her advice and dump him he is just using you and you should have noticed

Answer #4

Hun, this guy doesnt love you! HE IS WAYYY TOO OLD FOR YOU. Cant you see that all he wants from you is sex? Why would you allow him to finger you after only 1 week. That is a HUGE red flag. The jerk only wants ONE thing! If you want to keep your self respect, DUMP the loser or you might end up doing something you’ll regret! I really think you are being VERY naive if you think he is a virgin. Its obvious he is a player, and a user! Get out while you still have your dignity!

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