Take a moment to yourself to just think about what the anger is for. Think about the reasons and to what extent that anger is fair. Put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would react to situations that she had to deal with. Just relax. Give yourself time to cool down. Talk to someone you trust about the situation and ask their opinion on if you have reason to be mad at her or not. When you have thought about it enough talk to her. Have enough evidence or details to support your reasoning. Then find out her thoughts and feelings and go from there. Everybody starts making more sense after they have cooled down.
I feel ya on this one!! I've never been tight with my mom, nor can I ever trust her with a heart to heart because she ends up judging me or gossiping about me. At times it does feel as if she just bugs me to kill my joy. As much as she drives you crazy, know she's the one who brought you into this world. Take in her crazy madness and just breath, if she doesn't bother you, don't bother her. Show her you're mature however, do your dishes, laundry, keep your room clean - show her you're your own person. Show her you know how to care and respect yourself, and I'm certain she'll respect you. :)
Ignore her. I absolutely can't stand my mom. & That whole 'Talk to her, things will get better' is shiiit. My mom practically chose Alcohol over me. So whatever im done, im only 14 and I've pretty much moved out. I stay at my friends house for weeks at a time just to get away from her. I would suggest getting out the house, if you cant. Stay away from her & don't talk to her, unless necessary.Good luck! ♥
SILENCE TREATMENT MIGHT WORK , but that sometimes may piss her much more ! so having a good conversation with your mom and explaining your probs and her probs against each other might solve the issue or lessen it .. :)
Take a break away from her thats what I do I go out with my friends and forget about it(: then you should talk to her about it and say u know this kinda makes me mad can we try something diff..works for me(;
ooooh my gosh. its hard!!! but staying silent and talking as little as possible is the best thing to do :/
i wish i did that, but i get so angry i forget. but thats the best thing to do in my opinoin
remember she gave birth to you, always respect her.
Breath in peace, exhale hate.