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How can I get my Mom to be less controlling?

iight,my momma said that I cnt date till high-skool! but derr;s dis guy,& I really like him,&he likes me,but I cnt date him because my momma always cheks my stuff! txt mess,e-mail,call-history,evrything! so I cnt evn try 2 sneak date him! can someone plzz help me! I want 2 tell her 2 lay off sum,& 2 let me date…help? :|

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Hello young lady. Obviously your mother loves you very much and had set these rules for a reason. Although you do not like them and want to know everything you can do to get around her rules, you should really be thankful that you have her for a mother. She is teaching you great lessons that you will take with you when you are mother some day. Learn from your mother, because someday you may have a daughter and you will wonder if she is sneaking around seeing a boy before you have given her permission to date. I applaud your mother’s “nosiness”. You may hate it, but she cares a great deal about you. If this boy REALLY likes you, he will wait. You are going to a fine young woman some day and it will be in large part due to your mother! Good luck.

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