How can I get over my self-confidence issues and talk to girls?

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u risk it all and if u get it u get it u loose it u loose it. but if u do loose u try again. if u win u hv the chance to change ur life. i am a girl and i asked for the kiss and now i got a date this week all cuz i took a chance. lifes short

First of all I have two granddaughters about your age and they too have the same problem with shyness and self confidence issues, when it comes to boys especially the ones they like. Ironically both take being honor students very seriously and it’s what’s first on the list of their priorities. Both are very pretty girls. Their dad likes their that shy and keeps praying they stay just the way they are till they grow up and out of the house…His radar is always up anytime he senses boys snooping around ….LOL
Anyway back to topic…. keep in mind alot of girls that age feel the same as you do. I agree about getting out of your comfort zone but sometimes you have to let go of yourself and your thoughts and focus on theirs. Basically make your interests all about finding out about them and what interests them. The most boring people on earth are those who think they impress by talking about themselves nonstop. Those that focus on…I’m interested in you, what do you do, what do you think, and look for common shared similarities/interests to talk about, are the ones that peek interest in getting to know better. Shut off the what will they think of me button and focus on questions and conversations about them. Hope this helps.

Oh and a good trick when your starting to feel doubts about your self confidence is to imagine theirs as much worse.

well first are you social or shy? think of it like this, girls dont like shy guys. if you know your attractive then start by complimenting a girl on something like what she is wearing or her eyes etc… its not rocket science, im in the exact same position your in right now with a guy and hes shy so what i did is i talked to him first (ive never talked to him ever) and i broke the ice, so now he started talking to me. i think what you need is for the ice to be broken, and a girl sures hell not going to do that so YOU have to step up, know that this is life and its not supposed to be easy. and it really is a “just do it” thing.

life is to short to be scared of the unknown, take a chance and talk to girls. practice in a mirror it helps alot,

btw this guy is now officaly my boyfriend, so take a cahcne!

yeah!!! take a cahcne!!!!!

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Come on guys look in the gq magazine and men’s health get a good hair cut some nice clothed that aren’t hanging off ur but and do push UPS every night girls love shoulders and a cite face and hair and go for it if she laughs or turns around sues shy and keep trying.

be like Nike, just do it. confidence is key :)

Practice in the mirror just be yourself and start with an uglyish girl and say “hey whats up” then work your way up to the really pretty girls just make sure their not the ones who think they have it all. I was never scared of talking to guys for some reason but i will tell you dont be annoying and come up to her locker every hour every day. Make her like you but then be hard to get. Noone wants a boy thats to easy. Don’t be a perv and ask her to hang out and stuff. You need to be the one paying since you asked her out. Message me for anymore questoins!!

When you have the idea that you want to talk to them, do it in a casual manner. Talking to a girl doesn’t mean you have to want anything more from her than a decent conversation. think about how good of a time you have talking with friends. What do you talk about? Do you crack jokes? tell stories? These things make it interesting to speak with another person…which is all a girl is.