Being 'ASIAN"

Man, im sooo pissed right now .. I had a class trip today, things were so great & fun, until when I got back to school .. my friends that are in my boyfriends class, told me .. that how my boyfriend was trying to make fun of this mixed guy in his class [ half chinese & half afghan] .. My boyfriend said “ aha, whats wrong with your eyes? why’re they so small ..” .. then the guy replied “ my eyes are like this cause I saw your mom naked .. I dont know why your talking for, your girlfriend has the same eyes “ .. after they told me that, I felt so damn offended & hurt .

after when I finally got outside the school, I tried to juss forget like I didnt hear it .. But then thid other guy known as my ‘friend’ said .. “ LMFAO, I thought ONLY brown people wear Bangles [those bracelets] “ & then he kept repeating it .. right then, I juss walk’d off in tears .. My best friends tried to ask whats wrong & told me to tell them, but I didnt .

im so hurt right now .. I juss simply hate myself . im not chinese, im vietnamese .. & I juss dont know what to do .. WHY ME ?! Why can’t I be mexican, or from porto rico, or somewhere else, that isnt in the ‘ASIAN’ group ?! Cause then people wont pick on me so much . I HATE MYSELF .

What should I do now ???

Get plastic surgery ? die ?

Answer #1

dump him. he is a jerk. plus, he’ll suffer. guys can rarely get p^ssy, but girls are offered d!ck every day, whether you realize it or not. that’s all we think about. trust me, you’ll both be happier.

Answer #2

My boyfriend is actually Vietnamese too,

I think they are beautiful, his sisters and mom are sooo pretty!! Who cares what people think or say about you! Do not let that get you down, I know it hurts, but brush it off..

They are just picking on you because they are either jealous, hve something wrong with them..so they take it out on other people..keep your head up, and dont waste your tears on people like that.! :)

Answer #3

Show them what asians do best, Kung fu his butt. Dump him. Yell some swear words at him in your language. STAND UP FOR URSELF. I’m so sick of stereotypes, discrimination, and racism. I’m asian and MAD FREAKIN PROUD OF IT:) YOU SHOULD BE TOO! WHOOO! HAHAH:D

Answer #4

hey, vietnamese are cool people… and pretty too …

if your friends are saying these, you should tell them how you feel.. if you dont they wont know that your being hurt..

dont do any of thoes option…

Answer #5

Don’t even worry about them… I’m so shocked I’ve always thought asian people were really pretty. You shouldn’t be ashamed of who you are. No race is above another. People from all races are beautiful. If your friends are making fun of you maybe thats what you should change. Hang out with new people. People that won’t make fun of you over something like your race.

Answer #6

being asian is not bad at all. so, their a different race, what does that have to do with anything? you shouldnt let your outer appearence affect your inner. be proud to be asian, they are beautiful, sexy, smart

Answer #7

thats a first for me..I never knew any asian person would feel that way because I think asians are beautiful..and your eyes makes you that much prettier and different! thats really suprising to hear. but everyone gets picked on no one’s perfect…I have a big nose, but I dont really let that bother me. but if there picking on you they obviously have some issues of their own. but im sorry you had to go through that! good luck

Answer #8

ok not to be mean but wtc is rong with bein “asian” so wat our eyes r tiny (some are) it means we r unique and if u havent figured it out im asian n viet to… and i hav NO problem with it, i really like bein asian its who i am u mite feel down sumtin if sum1 makes fun of you just ignore it and move on there was this stupid racist kid in my school who made fun of me and the others so we kinda teamed up and told him off so we wont b hearin bout him 4 awhile XD wat im tryin to say is dont h8 urself 4 wat other ppl think.. neu ho lam cho niem vui cua ban, sau do ho khong phai la ban be cua ban.

Answer #9

Hey,it’s your stupid classmates at fault!! You are Asian,be proud! I agree with teedee,stand up for yourself for a change rather than being a door mat and snivelling in a corner. T_T Asians aren’t lesser beings,you know.

Answer #10

There’s nothing wrong with being Asian. Who cares if you have small eyes. I have met tons of Asians with bigger eyes than mine and I’m black. Don’t be ashamed of who you are. People who make fun of you are just trying to push their insecurities onto you. Don’t worry about what people have to say about you. P.S. you should confront your boyfriend about his remarks. If he has a problem with that kid he has a problem with you and if that’s the case he isn’t a great guy to be dating.

Answer #11

LOL, girl calm down. There is seriously nothing wrong with being asian. Asians are very talented people. I’ve had the same problems like you. It’s just an obstacle in life. I got over it, and there’s tons of asians out there who’s trying their hardest to get over this dumb obstacle. Even if you get plastic surgery, you’ll still be Asian; inside. You shouldn’t hate yourself, its like you’re hating your parents because they gave birth to you. Do you hate your parents? Probably not. Now, look at what Asians have done to Americans, They made stuff. Whether its cheap or expenisve, Mexicans/Americans wouldn’t be able to beat asians. I have tons of friends who want to be asians. Just ignore those so called friends. If they were really your friends, they wouldn’t say those stuff. Even if they’re playing around.

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