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am I putting mtself out there to much

I just started high school this year,because it was my first year I thought boys wudnt talk to me so I wear clothes to get older boys attention and it worked ,now im consider as one of the hottest girl in the 9th grade ,like when one of the senior or junior boys come talk to me…they be feelin and touchin on me I want to tell them to stop but they mite call me stuck up or something I kinda like the attention they givin me

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Answer #1

you need to stop these boys see you as nothing more than a sex object that they can feel up and if you keep it up they start to think that your easy to have sex with then word will get around to all the scholl and other kids will call you names its also very easy for older boys to rape young girlsd and the more “slutty” they appear to look, the more likely theyll want to do it im sure this isnt what you want and while its common for girls o want attention wanting it for all the wrong reasons is bad and dangerouse the boys who grab at you dont respect you or your feelings and they see you as nothing more than something there for them to look and feel up wear whats you actually feel comfortable in and whats appropriate for your age try to realsie that one day youll find a boy who gives you all the attention you need, because hell love you and he wont be some wanker who gawks at you and feels you up but at the rate your going, the second kins of guy are the only guys your going to attract

Answer #2

you can always just tell the boys that are feeling on you…

  1. umm… would you not do that!!! it works for me I give them a dirthy look with that!!!.. or just try to get away from those boys!!! 2.you can always try other clothes that are not tooo much but very cute!!! 
     like  xxjulixx said try gaing the attention of guys that would actually care she has a point there!!! be who you are and who you want to be not what other want to see!!!..
          gOod luck!!! my advice to you!!!=]
Answer #3

It’s inportant to make sure you stick to your morals even if they may thing your stuck up because it’s better to seem like a challenge then stuck up you dont want to get a reputation for being easy or else it’s going to become hard to tell a good guy from one that just wants to touch you. Every one does like attention but some times playing hard to get can be fun too and make you more interesting as a challenge so te you and say if your feel uneasy

Answer #4

Stop wearing the clothes then.

It’s natural to like the attention, But try gaining the attention of guys that would actually care.

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