Am I a loner?

hey I am kinda like that only I want to be a lone and ppeole wont leave me bee why friends know now that if I dont talk I aint going to talk for ages and at first they tried to get me to talk to them but I didetso yeah I am a bit of a loner my self but by choise I work better alone guided souly my music

if any of that makes sence =]

that doesnt mean your a loner.

your probly shy arnt u? well if you r then try to make pple laugh in class! tat always wrks. also try to make some new frends, and a lot [im not trying to pressure you lol]

im shy, and pple call me emo/goth just cause a wear black, and have my hair covering my eyes! pple dont seem to like me because of that. but my frends tell me they just do that because theyre jealous…

cause I had no where else to go

sounds like you either A) want to be a loner or B) have some huge character flaw that you don’t notice but other people do

I will so be your friend.

I had that problem in high school and I used to go to the library at lunch because I had no 1 to sit with… I want friends but its hard for me to come up to people and be so social like I see evryone else doing it so naturally. After high school I went to a therapist and was diagnosed with social anxiety…maybe you should talk to someone, it does not mean your crazy. you obviously see a problem or know its not normal to be like this so seek help… It can only get better…I’ll b your friend too.

I was a loner pretty much of all my school years. All the friends I had which I could count on my one hand eventually ditched me. Surprisingly, I had a guy who loved me and was 19 and out of school so that’s how I got through all those difficult days of harrassment from the kids. I threatened to quit but my mom told me that if I did I would never be able to see my boyfriend again. I suffered all through high school and graduated. I never set foot in that school again. I never will attend any of my reunions. I graduated in 1987 and I am still bitter about that school. When you turn 18 you are your own boss. I tried going to college but I do not like it. I’m a lot older than most college kids. I was a loner in college also. I felt left out. The professors were good to me. I just was in my own world when group of youngsers were in the classroom with me. Taking on-line courses is a good decision if you don’t fit in or suffer from social anxiety.

I don’t want to be a loner… cause loners are alone.. I don’t want to be alone..

why did you used to stay in a corner?

I don’t want to be a loner… cause loners are alone.. I don’t want to be alone..

You may not be shy exactly though I think you are cautious when you choose your friends… I’ll always be your friend though

You may and may not be, mainly think about whether you WANT to be around people. if you’re just trying to make friends because u see other people, then it’s obvious that they’re gonna ditch you. Just go with what makes you happy. If you really want a friend then you might wanna stop being so shy/selfconsiance cause that’ll do worse.