hey im 15 and 8 weeks pregnant,, im keeping the baby and have already told my b/f and family, my b/f who is 19 is over the moon he is so happy were going to have a kid, though we fite sumtyms I noe it will b fine,, we've been together for 1yr and 6 mnths bcoz of him I have grown up so much mor mature so I noe im ready, sum mite say that no 15 yr old is ready but yu have just met 1 who is I have so much support and love in my life, im not rich but we get through the daes my boyfriend is a deticated worker and soon father, im proud to call him my boyfriend,, only prob is my some of my friends think I got pregnant so I could b like every1 else but thats not true because thats their lives not mine.. anyway this really isnt a question but if yu have any comments 'hit me' with em.. thnx xxx LAus
Simply a Rose to brighten your day, And maybe lessen the cares in your way; And also, too, to help you to know, That in knowing you, many others grow!
Regardless of what everyone thinks, you are pregnant and deserve helpful advice in dealing with your present circumstances and the future that is before you.
Set yourself goals that are realistic and work toward them. The goals should be for 6 months, a year, 2 years and 5 years. The goals need to be for you, your baby and your boyfriend if he remains in the picture.
Some of those goals need to concern your education and your financial status.
You need to do everything you can to achieve the greatest amount of education that you possibly can over the next several years so that you will be able to take care of yourself and the baby, by yourself, in case you and your boyfriend split up.
There are only two certainties in life -- death and taxes. Everything else is a result of chance and is not guaranteed to last. Therefore, prepare yourself to be self-reliant.
Best wishes and stay positive.
Ted
a year and a half is really not much of an indication of your relationship's future.
I guess what I want to say is - things change and people change. So in your "maturing" you should remember that. Also the fact that you had to post something that ""really isnt a question"" but pretty much justifying yourself speaks for itself.
I was with a guy for 3 1/2 years and we were married after 2. We were ready to have kids, just bought a house, just bought a car... and I realized I didn't love him. (Thank GOD we didn't have kids.)
The last thing I want to hit on is you're 15, he's 19. You're pregnant with HIS child which is proof you two had sexual relations. At your age and his it's statutory rape. He could go to jail and be forever labeled a sex offender. Just an FYI.
I wish you the best with your pregnancy and relationship.
xox Sika
Personally, I highly doubt anyone is really ready for a baby at 15.
You may have 'matured' while you've been with your current boyfriend, but teenagers have a truckload of hormones racing around their bodies, which can lead to them making irrational decisions. You can say "Oh, but that's not me!", but the reality is, you're no different. And it's got nothing to do with whether I know you or not, it's a simple fact of biology. We're all programmed like this, and hormones have caused all of us to make decisions we wouldn't have normally made- most of which happen in our teens.
The fact that you've posted a spiel here that isn't really a question makes it seem like you're trying to convince yourself more than you're trying to convince us.
ok thnx sikashimmer? though just bcoz yur lyf didnt wrk out doesnt mean mine wont and the guy im with is the guy I grew up with I noe him so well and know he will neva do nething wrong by me.. my family loves him and his family loves me we live toghether and have been for the past 7 months so I think we will do fine..
and thnx heaps bhaines I don't hear many girls sayin there proud to be pregnant and 15 but I am and noone can change that becoz of the fact I know ill love this baby and if I got rid of it I would regret it sooo much
If he is listed as the baby's father on the birth certificate, the government will put him in jail, whether you or your family want them to or not. That is what happened to my cousin and her boy. He has to register as a sex offender now, and he isn't allowed to see my cousin until she turns 18 and isn't allowed to see the baby without supervision. Just telling you what could happen, not trying to bring your party down, because I'm happy that you are excited! I just don't want you to get hurt. Be careful.
I think if you think you can handle it than thats great! =] are you still going to go to school? I know a girl(she'sone of my friends , she got pregnant at 15 and she has a beautiful baby boy she went to school up until the day she had the baby , they are both doing great.. I give her a lot of credit for going to school .. just remember people will judge you)
KeEp YoUr HeAd Up! =D
ok the only reason I wrote the 'question' is because I dont want to tell anyone like in my family or friends that im proud or excited because then they might think I planned for this but after knowing for a couple of weeks its made me excited, thats all. im not trying to convince anyone its just interesting to see what people think..
Hey you asked for comments and I commented. You can't always hear what you want to hear.
My life worked out fine. I'm with a great guy now... I'm just giving you a hindsight perspective.
The only thing constant is change. I'm not critisizing, just telling you how it is.
Again, I wish you the best.
xox Sika
if your spelling skills reflect your future parental skills, your screwed...and get a life and a mentor...what the hell is with this country...I can see why every other nation hates us...and your boyfriend, is a loser who cant even date someone who is even in highschool..
I knw he sys he will b der 4 you but I knw lodsa blks o say that an leave as son as da baby pops ot or sn after because dey cnt handle da responsibilty but der are sme blokes o stay so you have to trust your insticts an c what appens
if yu have any comments 'hit me' with em..
We're giving you comments- it's not our problem if you don't like them.
and yes im still going to school im in yr 11 and im finishing I noe ill get judged though they'll get over it :)
ok so your from australia...my fault, your still sad and pathetic
laus: This is not Wheel of Fortune. Vowels do not cost extra.
Lol, I wonder what will happen when the police find out.
