Why am I scared?

I don’t know im just sceared I don’t know how to have sex. and dose it hurt? dose matter what size it is I want to know these things cause I dont have a mom or some to ask?

Answer #1

masturbate. It will prepare you a bit I guess!

Answer #2

if your scared that means your not ready, wait untill your comfortable and ready for the consiquences. I got pregnant and a condom and plan b were both used so theres always a chance of pregnancy no matter what. Find an adult you trust and speak to them about it. And yes size does matter for your first time, if there larger it’s going to hurt more then if they were average or on the smaller size.

Answer #3

Then don’t have it. If you feel people around you influencing you to have sex avoid them. Only have sex when you feel comfortable enough about your body and the thought of someone else touching you. Learn how to protect yourself, female condoms, male condoms, birth control, the ring (forgot the real name), and so on. And more importantly make sure that the person your going to do with it isnt just using you. once again don’t have sex if you dont feel ready for it.

Answer #4

you know what im like a sex addict I love it but if I could go back to when I was 15 my first time I would of not had it untill I found the right guy who id want to be with forever .I could have sex with a million different guys and it wouldnt mean anything just another meaningless session what matters is you love and care for the person your going to be with that makes it so much better . The last thing you need to feel is cheap and disposible so dont let anyone presure into sex that doesnt care about you truly

Answer #5

try and masturbate, because it will prepare you for later, and find a guy who will respect you during your first time, eg. Go slow, and take it steady.

Small will hurt less than big

Soon it will feel great lol

PS: I got this answer from my friend who I was on the phone to lol, don’t want you to think its really creepy a guy saying these things :p

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