My friend is scared

She loves her boyfriend and wants sex but shes scared of how bad it will hurt and keeps asking me what she should do or how much it hurts because shes a virgin and im not

well this will sound weird but if she's that worried she could always just buy a dildo to get an idea of what it would feel like. I really dont think sex will hurt her though. if the guy knows its her first time he'll most likely go easy. my first time I just felt a little discomfort it wasnt like omg dieing of pain. I think she'll be fine.