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When to sit and when to stand potty training?

My little boy will be three on July 15th. I am starting him out using the potty; he refused before. I read that you feel they should start by sitting while they pee vs standing. That is what I have been doing, but you are the only person I have found that says that. I agree with you, but my question is, will that confuse him when down the road you tell him he has to stand to pee? I am confused!! Also, when do they start standing to pee?

I would really appreciate some help. I would never be able to find your answer if you post it on this site. I came upon it by accident and am not too swift with computers. I do know email though; could you send your reply to my email? remnant1217@verizon.net.

Thank you!!

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Answer #1

Hi,

Well you weren’t asking me this question, but it is very common for people to teach little boys to use the bathroom sitting down first:

Since bowel movements and urine often come at the same time, it makes sense — at least initially — to have your son sit for both so he learns that both belong in the potty. This will also keep him from getting distracted by the fun of spraying when you need him to focus on just mastering the basic procedure.

Once your son has mastered going to the bathroom sitting down, he can move on to the standing position. Having a readily available male role model is key, so arrange for Dad, an uncle, an older brother, or a good family friend to do the honors. After accompanying his model to the bathroom to watch, let your son give it a try in his potty chair — on his own or next to the big guy at the big toilet.

If your son seems reluctant, try floating a few pieces of O-shaped cereal or other small, flushable targets (some companies sell products just for this purpose) in the toilet bowl. You can expect to clean up a few messes as your son refines his aim.

Good luck, hope it helps.

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