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Spanked as an adult.

Asked by staceym about 1 year ago, 44 answers.

Does any one get spanked who is over the age of 18 and still lives at home.

About a year after I moved back home after college, my mom became fed up with my immature behavior and temper tantrums. She informed me if I was going to act like a child...

then she would treat me like one. A rude awakening for me, she brought one of those large bath brushes, and paddled my bottom with it. It's more of an embarrassing spanking than painful, I mean it stings pretty good, but thats it. She didn't want to paddle my bare bottom but definitely wanted to take my pants down, so she came up with the idea of putting me in punishment panties to get paddled in. It kind of makes sense since I am mostly in thong panties anyway. She uses my college cheerleading uniform panties. Yes, spankies. So she takes my pants completely off and puts me in the spankies, and then over her knee. Totally embarrassing. After she paddles me she either sends me to my room or puts me in the corner. Even more embarrassing. The most humiliating thing is that my behavior has gradually improved. My best friend thinks it's hilarious. I guess I need to grow up or move out. Until then, my bottom gets put up and paddled like a little spoiled brat, and I do learn my lesson, eventually. happy

Loki Monster Answered by acidburn987 on Aug 23, 2008, 10:06PM
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this is NOT healthy at all. um...your mother has psychological issues. bad ones. and I'mma just go out there and say it, it sounds like you're a bit of a masochist yourself. like you enjoy bieng humiliated...??? either way, this is not healthy. you can do these things as a part of something kinky with your husband or boyfriend but...PARENTS?!??! imma leave you with one word, therapy...your mother needs it badly if she thinks this is normal.

Answered by trisarahtops on Aug 23, 2008, 10:11PM
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lol I think it's pretty funny.
I wish my mom would spank my older brother when he does dumb stuff.
It is also a little word to.
I haven't been spanked since I was like ten.
I don't think my parents could catch me though.

me n headphone flow mode Answered by punkyflicscene on Aug 23, 2008, 10:24PM
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wow that's very strange. judging from your post, id have to agree with acid and say I think you enjoy it a bit. sounds like your mom has parenting issues, and perhaps a bit more. and you, well, I think perhaps you...

...maybe you both should get that looked into. I don't know where you're from, but where I'm from, that's plain old weird. sorry =\

MY Sexy picture Answered by shawn_miller on Aug 23, 2008, 10:45PM
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Hey, what works, works. My mother just grounds me...im 16 though.happy

Answered by inlove4ever on Aug 23, 2008, 11:56PM
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Omfg is this a fricken joke? lol ru kidding me you let your mom spank you and your over 18? you and your mom seriously need help im not trying 2 b mean im just telling you the truth.

Answered by burntoutdropout on Aug 24, 2008, 01:24AM
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Lmao... wow... I wouldnt let my mother spank me... sounds to me like you enjoy it...
wich is a bad thing

Me & my hubby Answered by colethky on Aug 24, 2008, 05:43AM
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Maybe you should stop acting like a child then she would stop spanking you. If she's doing it because you act like a child then STOP. You're 18 not a baby, don't act like one. If she continues after you start acting your age then she needs some serious help...why are you letting her put you over her knee anyway? Aren't you big enough to get away?

still bored haha Answered by xxscoflakexx on Aug 24, 2008, 05:55AM
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oh my gosh!.. Sorry but your mum has issues, she actually undresses you =|. why the hell do you even let her do it? your not a kid. im 18 and my mum wouldnt even think about spanking me! I learn from my own mistakes and actions she doesnt have to punish me im not 5!

medisplaypicc Answered by bipolaryoda on Aug 24, 2008, 03:47PM
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act mature ;p and if it continues press charges for assault - you are over 18 - don't put up with that . as a last course of action...beat her arse go get you friends if you like, but beat her like she owes you money ok? make sure you have a place to stay before you go that route tho lol hope this helps ;p

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 25, 2008, 08:22PM
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Your mother seems like she wants to treat you like a child.
That's not right! I'd say move out! you're an adult. That's uncalled fore!
What a disgrace! your mother needs to get a life!

Answered by robbypnd on Aug 30, 2008, 02:51AM

No judgments from me, just my own story. I am a 29 year old man living in the same town as my parents (rent apartment, have job). By and large, my paddlings ceased the summer of my high school graduation at age 18. There were three subsequent incidents of corporal punishment (flogging) after that which I agreed to after it was decided at formal family meetings including both sisters, my brother, both parents, both sets of grandparents (still alive) 5 aunts, 4 uncles, and as many as 21 cousins That my transgressions were severe enough to necessitate corporal punishment. The last occurred at age 27 when stopped for speeding and drunken driving I smarted off to, and resisted handcuffing by, the arresting officers and was taken to jail were I cooled my heels for two weeks in convalescence after getting sprayed, tazed, roughed up and punched out by the cops on the scene and again in the jail cell. Meanwhile a family meeting was convened while I was incarcerated and the decision was that I was to be flogged 36 strokes with a 3 foot long and 1 inch thick semi-flexible plastic resin punishment rod which left me well torn up and bloody with my father and one of my uncles taking turns laying on 6 strokes at a time to my naked and prone butt as I was buck bare and splayed over a saw horse with both hands and feet on the floor at a remote family owned cottage . I wore one of my girlfriends G strings for a few days until my butt healed enough to be covered by cloth briefs. Coming over 4 years after the next most recent family ordered thrashing, this was by far the most severe and noticeable scarring resulted. Though I was 27 at the time, and leaving the laws regarding abuse and assault aside, I probably richly deserved corporal punishment but I think maybe a strong paddling rather than what I received would have been more appropriate. A related surprise, I have not mouthed off to any police officers, my parents, relatives, siblings or cousins-since. Stiff fines were also imposed in which I had to pay $1640 for resisting arrest (court ordered), $1140 drunken driving (court ordered) and $880 for the speeding ticket itself.

Answered by ef61190 on Sep 14, 2008, 04:30PM

I was last smacked back in januarym 3 months after my 18th birthday, by my mum, it was over her knee on my bare bum with her hand, it was so embarrassing and humiliating!!

Emily

Answered by innominate on Oct 15, 2008, 07:12AM
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I'd suggest getting a webcam and starting an adult site for this, the profits could help pay for your own flat!!

Answered by innominate on Oct 15, 2008, 07:13AM
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I'd suggest getting a webcam and starting an adult site for this, the profits could help pay for your own flat!!

So many silver linings...for all of us!

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Dec 02, 2008, 11:30AM
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inominate, why dont you do that then? I could do with a laugh

tweety says hey Answered by rocteen on Jan 14, 2009, 04:00PM
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omg that is so freakin funny you don`t even know gosd if that happened to me I would be so freaked but hearin about is sooo funny I might pee myself rite now thanks I really needed somethin to laugh about

Answered by sexxxxxx3 on Jan 17, 2009, 10:59PM

wow I thought I was alone!! Does your mom bring out the whipp because mine does. my dad hits me with the chain with a spiked ball at the end. it really hurts but I deserve it. im a bad bad boy because im into guys and they dont agree with my decision to pursue the homosexual life. therefore I either alter my sexual orientation, or I move to st. petersbug to live with dmetri in the abandoned palace. one day, I save enough money to spend the rest of my life with him, free of chained spike balls and whips.

Answered by shadowb on Feb 16, 2009, 10:17AM
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If my 18 year old was acting up, I don't care how old she is , I am her mother and I will discipline her. Mothers are forever mothers, after all. I still get disciplined by my mother and its only because she cares about me (not spanking but she sure puts me in my place and I am 44). I try to not disappoint her though, because I don't want to embarrass myself. My 18 year old, this weekend while wanting to visit her, called the police on her dad and I. This is why, it's because she is living in a residential school and lacks parental supervision, because we are not there. She is 18, I know but just because you are 18, doesn't mean that you are a adult. You young adults think you know everything, whatever. I know better, cause I was one of them. It's ridiculous to even conceive the notion that you have to spank a child, but let me tell you if that police officer wasn't there and we weren't at the residential school district, I would have turned her over my knees and busted her butt so hard she wouldn't be able to sit for 2 weeks. She embarrassed her father and me and she made herself look like a total idiot. We adopted this young lady and this is the thanks we get. If you are going through, this let me give you some advice. Don't call the cops on your parents, listen to them-they are probably right anyway, and do the right thing with your life. Your family will be the only thing for you anyway when your on your own, so quit taking advange of them. Grow up and take responsiblity for your own life.

me n my girl Answered by trevorh55 on Mar 03, 2009, 11:50AM
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well , I remember a couple months ago , I was suppose to weld a cattle trailer for my dad and I didnt do it properly he got a bull whip and smacked me lol , but thats just for fun I think im almost 20 lol , but I remember my granny givin me a native whoopin with a willow stick when I was young thoughsad lol.

Answered by ketbri on Mar 09, 2009, 04:41AM

EMILY YOU GET WHAT WAS COMEING TO YOU IF YOU WHERE ONLY 18 AND WAS BAD YOU NEEDED A SPANKING

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