How to deal with overprotective brothers?

I am a 14 year old girl and my 3 older brothers (18,17,15) are very overprotective of me but not my older sis (16). I don't want to hurt their feelings but I've never had a boyfriend and when I once kissed a boy they gave out so badly to me, pleas help!...

I know I'm lucky that I NEVER fight with my bros or even my sis! but that's not much help when it's really upsetting me, my parents tell me to not be so silly. I really apriciate them but they are more like dad's than bros. we do get on really well and never fight =, I think it's cause they will give out to me if we do!, but I still think you can love someone and care for them without bein like my bros!

Your brothers are guys. They know what boys your age think about girls. Be grateful that there are three of them.

Anyway, you're only fourteen. You don't need to have a boyfriend until you're at least seventeen.

trust me your lucky, I wish I had over protective brothers sometimes my 2 brothers dont give a crap about me

I started dating guys when I was 10 yet that was a waste of my time I never had a real boyfriend till I was about 15

You're only 14 - you have plenty of time - it'll pass before you know it - be thankful you have family that cares and looks after your best interests, many, many, many, don't care...I wish you the best !!

It is odd really that you are writting about your brothers and not your Parents...most people talk about haveing over protective PARENTS and not BROTHERS...as always I would say rejoice in everything...especialy this it is great that they care about you...it is not good if they where not letting you be you but that does not seem to be the problem...as long as they give you the freedom tog row and be who you are then I am seeing no real problem..now as for them protecting you an not your six years old sister well she is sixteen and she is not going to listen to any one that is just how sixteen year olds are. Even at seventeen we think we know it all well most of us an we think we don't need any one...when at times we need people badly and we often learn the hard way that we do not know it all. Also startting at sixteen you leanr a lot about MEN and how different they are...it is not some thing that your brothers need to get into she'll learn it best on her own. You will too at that age..I highly advise you to take into consideration what they do say though.

good luck and dont worry it is a great thing.

if they don't know, they don't care!