I want too have an affair

hi I am 32 years old my hubby is 55 we#039;ve been married for 11yrs now and I am very bored with our sex life I met someone on the internet over a year ago and we have been talking about meeting hes so sweet and nice and I want too so bad but I#039;m...

scared I care about my husband I would feel guilty but just one time I want to be with him and I keep putting him off cause I#039;m so confused then I feel bad cause even I make myself sic for thinking this way but I cant help it I cant stop thinking about him so could you please tell me what you think I should do.. sincerely Depressed

well, I can relate cause I am also 32 amp; at my peak. My husband is the same age, but he works all the time. So basically I am sexually deprived. Have ya#039;ll tried viagra? Do you still love him? If so, then you should find different ways to make your sex life better. But if you don#039;t, then go for it!!!

Man I wish I was married to either of you. I am 35 and can#039;t get my wife to have sex more then once a month. I am not that out of shape and treat her very well. She just is not interested right now and so I feel like I am going to explode. My advice to you is don#039;t have the affair. If you are unhappy get divorced and then find someone new. I would venture to guess the guy from the internet will not pan out but you never know.

I agree with skatedaddy; Haveing a affair isn't the answer ... I wouldn't suggest that type of hurt. I would try to ask him if he still loves you and could you have more sex life and more communicateion if not then seek a marriage counslor are a laywer for a divorce. Dont be unhappy in a relashinship.
And dont be scared to ask questions after 32 years of marriage you should be able to talk about anything. Good luck.

I totally understand how you're feeling. I've been married to my husband for 14 years and I'm not attracted to my husband like I once was. There's this guy who I am REALLY ATTRACTED to. And I believe he's attracted to me, too. But I haven't taken the next step, because I feel really guilty. I think about this other guy constantly. I feel like I'm going to go crazy, if I don't tell this other guy how I feel. Then I think about my husband who is really good to me and I feel like a real snake. Somedays I feel like I could never do it, then I'll see him and I feel I could definetely see myself having an affair with him. I'm stuck in the same boat as you. I confided to one of my friends and she believes I should follow my dreams and have the affair, but I don't know how I would feel if it ever really happened. Could I live with myself? Let me know what you decided to do. Good luck!!

hi i'm 26 and my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 yrs and he has just poped the question. we both have been married once before and i was extremely hurt in my last marriage.my boyfriend has just changed professions and is now never home on top of that i have just found out that a friend of ours is attracted to me and i am him. the problem im haveing is alot like yours but its not really a question of if i should it's now a matter of timming because the man i am wanting to have an affair with is also in a relationship.my friend and i have already discussed the fact that this is a no strings attached affair possibly a one time only thing but.my advice to you is that you really have to use your best judgment on it. is it really what you want to do or is it just a matter of curiossity? and how are you going to feel afterwards if you do have the affair.is it possible that you are ready to move on with your life or do you just want a playmate?