How do I put up with my sister-in-law?

ok I seriously dislike my sister in-law it's impossable to like her for more then a week!! she's alway's acting all fake and 'aggreable' when she really hate's us (me and my sister) im alway's trying to be nice to her and forgive her but it seem's like every time I turn around I hear that she's said something about me or my sister, she's a grown kid!! and if my brother did'nt have a child by her(2 year's old) we'd have nothing to do with her!! she's got into argument's with a teenager!! (being me) I was'nt just going to let her talk sh**!! so I said somthing, but that's another story, we dont like eachother but we try to get along for the sake of peace!! she call'd my mother 'a joke to this world' I hate her!! my brother appologize's for her way's and he once told me he didnt want to be with her,(and cus im living with my brother right now that's what we have to put up with EVERY DAY!!)HER SMART DUMB COMMENT'S!!,HER 5YEAR OLD ARGUMENT'S!!, I CANT TAKE IT I WANT OUT!! AS SOON AS MY MOM COME'S BACK,(from miami)IM OUT!! BUT PLEZZ TELL ME HOW CAN I PUT UP WITH HER CHILDISH WAY'S, UNTIL THEN??I GOT TO KNOW OR IM going to LOSE MY MIND!!

MAN F**K that H*E AND ALL HER D*MN WAYS CUSS HER OUT (DATS what I WULD DO) MAN I BET SHEZ UGLY AS HE*L you CANT LET HER TALK MESS LK that you NEED 2 SHOW NT 2 MESS WIT you OR your FAMILY! ALL I CAN SAY IS you N your SIS just TEACH HER A LESSION!

Dear harmony,
It takes two to argue so you are also going to her level by arguing with her. You can't change others just yourself. Who is telling you the bad things she is saying about your family? This person is repeating things just to hurt you?? That person has a bigger problem then she does. We can't like everyone but when there is a small child involved we need to find a way to get along..the child is your niece and you need to be somewhat concerned about the role you play in her life.
Sue..good luck

umm that's my brother telling me these thing's but im sure he dos'nt want to hurt me when she say's these thing's he's the only one to take up for us,(I've even heard it one time) thank's sue I really like your advice.

oh and to whadafuxup she da* suer anit the pretty's thing that rome's the earth, her look's alone can kill an army.

I am not answering you'r question,I just want to say that my sister in law is a bigger b*tch than yours!I came into my husbands family 8 years ago,from day 1 she did not like me and actually told me that.Her husband sides with me!She has ruined this family and her husbands because she does not like her other sister inlaw either.She is horrible and mean.I am a really nice person and she missed out.She is a very jealous person over everything,that is the stem.I have gotten councelling and talked to a million friends over these issues.She will never change and can go to hell.I feel bad for you,I can relate.

yup I hate sister-in law's breyann, but our's are about the same at worse, did I forget to mention that she actually acused me and my sister of sleeping with our brother!! eww!! she is so jealous!! it's sickening!! she call'ed my mom a m**er f*cker. she suck's.

Ok I say your sister in law is really driving you nuts. The best advice I have is to sit down and have a talk with your brother, sister, and sister-in-law and all explain problems between one another, and if that doesn't go well then the only answer is to move out or just stay away.

tur, so true, thanks.

tur, so true, thanks.