Should I date even though my trust is gone?

I have recently made a choice to stop dating girls on a serious note , So I can spend time with my boy's and spend the winter Boarding and having fun . I thought I need'ed time to find myself after a couple of bad relationships . Now dont get me wrong I love my friends (not in a gay way ) HA,HA,. But on a serious note I miss having a girl to spend time with , But I have a trust issue after I was cheated on. I have tuched on this issue before and my frinds say do not be dumb you are looking to hard. My question is , What is to hard ? I have met a girl who loves to Snowboard as much as I do and also Skates in the summer as I do . She is great but and yes there is a but , I am scared of screwing it up because of my trust thing . Any advice would help . PEACE & LOVE To all

Well, if you like this new girl and you two have enough in common and you are willing to give it another try, you shouldn't let your bad experience keep you from exploring the possibility of a relationship with her, just take it slower this time. But, on the other hand, if you are dead-set on having more time for yourself then you should just consider her a friend and maybe keep in contact with her until you feel ready to be with someone again. Either way it sounds like you will get to spend time doing the things you love!

As always you have helped Heathershaw and as always I say thankyou . I only wish everyone was like you . If I could find another you my search would be over .

Peace Girl