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Would you say its stupid of me to have a baby when im 18 ?

getting ready Asked by tiny_tinkerbell about 1 year ago, 30 answers.

Im nearly 18 this winter.
Would you say its stupid of me to have a baby when im 18 ?

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 31, 2008, 02:17PM
53906 answers

and I have got a boyfriend that is long tearm, I hope

the I hope sends off red flags. have you talked to him about it? does he want a baby?
babies need stability and constant attention... that means you give up your social life.
why don't you and your long term boyfriend try taking care of a pet together first, and see what you can both handle.

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Answered by sup7dragon on Mar 31, 2008, 02:04PM
12 answers

more guys will like you if your a virgin so dont get knocked up kk

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:05PM
149 answers

I aint a virgin thou

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:08PM
149 answers

and I have got a boyfriend that is long tearm, I hope

Me:) Answered by laura757576 on Mar 31, 2008, 02:11PM
62 answers

I think 18s quite young, I have a baby sister, and I look after her a lot, and it's HARD WORK, and I'm not even looking after her all the time.

Babies cry all night, and are sick, and poop.

But, yeh, they're cute, and it's so amazing to watch them grow up !

But I would think that you want a life instead of just being a Mom ?

What about working in a nursery for a while, and seeing how you can cope with all the icky things of babies.

And, how would you provide for the baby, and would your boyf stick around, and where would you live ?

Sorry if I seem negative, I'm just trying to help happy

x

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:16PM
149 answers

I work with 2 year and 9 months to 5 year old children on a placement
im trying to get an electronic baby from college to make sure I am sure I want one.
its th hardest thing in the world to wait 2 year just to have a baby and I dont know if my boyfriend will be with me then as well

Comment for roxy777's profile Answered by roxy777 on Mar 31, 2008, 02:17PM
33 answers

its a lot of work k. your 2 young 2 have a baby but its up 2 you k!surprised

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:19PM
149 answers

my boyfriend wants to wait till im 20 but I dont know if I can wait or not.

me Answered by pinkrocker06 on Mar 31, 2008, 02:20PM
5 answers

A Baby is a lot of work. I was pregnant @ 18 however; I miscarried. Money becomes a factor as well. So does your boyfriends views on having children.

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:22PM
149 answers

yh he sed we can have children at 20 or 21 but its seems abit long to wait

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 31, 2008, 02:39PM
53906 answers

it's not too long to wait. get a savings going an get a pet for now. do you have a cousin or someone you could watch for a week this summer. see how much attention they take...

Comment for roxy777's profile Answered by roxy777 on Mar 31, 2008, 02:49PM
33 answers

it is good 2 wait cause you will be more mature and ready! it will be worth it. happy happy happy happy happy happy

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:50PM
149 answers

yh
im learning how to drive really soon then ill have a car.
and my boyfriend is learning how to drive to
and I got savings kept away anyways and next summer my boyfriend starts work so he will be earning and ill be doing level 2 and 3 in childcare in college.

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 02:53PM
149 answers

but its waiting for to have the baby thou.
it seems a really long time away.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 31, 2008, 03:24PM
53906 answers

it is a long time... forget what everyone else is saying... just get pregnant. have a baby. good luck.

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 03:30PM
149 answers

a baby costs a lot
a child even more

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 31, 2008, 03:35PM
53906 answers

Hi Tammy,
I like the new name.

happy

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Mar 31, 2008, 03:43PM
149 answers

why are u talking to me again kiasu ?
I changed it as I wanted to get from u

Technina Answered by technina on Mar 31, 2008, 04:28PM
22 answers

I had a kid when I was 18 but it was not planned it takes a lot of work. I had to get a full time job not go to school I work 56 hours a week to support her. if your going to do it you need make sure your boyfriend wants to because it is a bad idea to go against his wishes too because you loose your social life right away and if he is not willing to do that you might end up raising your kid on your own. that is a decision you need to make if your willing to do that if you think your strong enough and really want this I say go for it but make sure you have the right kind of support and the right life good luck

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Mar 31, 2008, 11:45PM
53906 answers

I'm an advisor Tammy, I look through ALL the questions posted.

I'm sorry you dont like my advice when it is constructive and designed to help. If that is the case, I would suggest that you just ignore it.

You make me laugh. You change your name and then keep your photo and the same type of questions.

You cant hide from people on here Tammy because people that are just attention seekers will always keep posting the same type of questions but just reword them slightly.

Doesnt matter if you call yourself sexylittletinker, sexylittlebarbie, barbieface or tiny_tinkerbell.

In my opinion, you dont like my replies NOT because I am being horrible to you but because they catch you out with your lies and contradictions and the fact that you keep changing your stories.

It is not just me that will notice this Tammy, other members are clever enough to notice this as well.

As I said, if you dont like my advice, the same as advice from general members, please feel free to ignore it.

Take care

happy

getting ready Answered by tiny_tinkerbell on Apr 01, 2008, 04:32AM
149 answers

yh I will make sure that my boyfriend is behind me and he will always behind me.
im going to get a job so I have money behind me if I need it.
and I have all of my famly around me too

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