I'm 13 and my boyfriend wants a family in a couple of years but im not sure if im up to it, what should I do?
at thirteen you really cant start a family. you should finish highschool at the very least, and think about college. youre really young, youre going to meet so many new people before you get married and start a family. I bet your boyfriend doesnt really know what he means. im sure he thinks he wants a family with oyu but if you sat down and pointed out all the things you couldnt do and how unprepared you are at your age he will understand. and dont let him pressure you into havign sex. if you say no and he tries to guilt you or say he loves you and would do it for you stay strong and jsut say no. if he keeps tryign to pressure you he isnt the one for you. tell him if he really cared about you he would respect you and your decisions
Tell him you're too young and want to be able to live your life for a little while before settling down.
If he has common sense and respect for you, he'll accept this. If he doesn't accept your answer, then he's not the right guy.