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My Wife is not talking to me since noon due to a small quarrel!What should I do?Can anyone of you insist her to talk to me.Please!Just post your answer and I'll show it to her.My whole day has been boring without her company!
I'm not married, and I don't know about anyone else, but the silent treatment is pretty immature. you probably have an amazing wife, but cutting the lines of communication does nothing to solve a problem. all it does is create distance. try to talk to your wife about that. make it a goal not to give each other the silent treatment. if you really can't talk, give yourselves 30 minutes (or some set time) for a break, and then talk after that time allotment. never cut communication. refusing to talk shows lack of respect. not good. if you've done it to her in the past, resolve never to do it again.
if she really won't talk to you right now, all you can do is do everything you can to not be selfish. do the dishes, help make her breakfast in the morning, rub her back (if she'll let you), leave her a note on the mirror in the morning that you love her and want to talk.
...that's pretty much my advice. I hope it helps you out.
The silent treatment is a destructive punishment...it hurts any relationship. Some people simply NEED some cool down time, and a few hours might be what it takes for her. (hard on us, who spit it out, and get it out...but we're not all created equal :) )
For this time, let it run it's course...THEN, when things are flowing again, sit down and talk about it. If it's her particular way of cooling down, well ok...if it's a punishment, then it's NOT ok. Discuss it honestly and openly...and make a pack about a time limit. That's how grown ups do it.
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