Why men act so distant sometimes

My boyfriend always calls up to make arrangements to go out,even when I sometimes think he won’t phone me again he is a nice guy. He is divorced for seven years but, the longer I see him, I still do not feel relaxed in his company. Sometimes I find the atmosphere so tense, I feel like saying to him whts up but he is always friendly wtc. Theres just this big wall between us, will it ever get better . The thought of him finishing with me would leave me devastated as I do really like him but compared to other relationships I find him cols sometimes unable to make small talk. He is Capricorn I am Aquarius, I keep on thinking things will get better as we get to know one another but sometimes I feel so empty when I leave him.

Answer #1

Sounds like you aren’t getting everything you need from this relationship. It might be just that you are very different in showing emotions and feelings but in the long run this might not be for you. The best way to get to the bottom of it is to talk about it. Frankly, no relationship can move forward if people don’t talk. Your only chance of saving it is my trying to find common ground and understand each other. It’s also the only way you’ll really know if this relationship is worth it all!

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