Why is my girlfriend never in the mood for sex any more?

I haven’t had any action of any sort in 5 weeks and she just keeps saying shes not in the mood but wont let me try to get her in the mood and avoids doing things that might arouse her like kissing me, letting me give back rubs, putting my arm over her at night, in the past week all I can get is hand holding but last month we were averaging 10-15 sexual encounters per week I want to know why the rapid change of personality and she seems to think that all I want is sex but I tried to explain to her that its not the case because I love her but that doesn’t mean I don’t need sex and I don’t know what to do about this

Answer #1

how would you suggest I do that kirakira?

Answer #2

I hate to say it dude, I still really think she’s cheating on you and you should find that out. SOON.

Answer #3

that’s the thing though she used to be the aggressor at first and about half the time for 4 months she couldn’t get enough that is why im worried about lately and she cant get out of her moms house any more so we get about 3 hours twice a week alone to do stuff like that and during that time we watch family guy or something and she says things like “I don’t feel good” or “im just not in the mood” witch is understandable but not for almost 6 weeks I dont know what to think

Answer #4

WELL TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING CAN BE A BADTHING.LMFAO.MAYBE SHE IS TIRED AND WANT A CHANGE. SHE COULD BE FEELING USED SINCE THATS HOW SHE FEELS IS THATS ALL you WANT.DONT TRY TO GETTHATALL THE TIME INFACTTRYAND AROUSE HER BY TAKING HE are TO DINNER,TO A MOVIE,JUST A WALK TO THE PARK,ON A VACATION OR SOMETHING THAT AROUSES HER EMOTIONALLY.MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL OR SHE’LL PULL AWAY FROM YOU.FEMALES ARE VERY TUNED INTO EMOTION IF WE DONT TELL YOU HOW WE FEEL WE DWELL ON THE EMOTION WHICH ISNT GOOD IT COULD BRAKE OR PULL TO PEOPLE APART SO TRY TO EMOTIONALLY SATISFY EVEN IT MEANS JUST TALKING K^^

I HOPE I HELPED^^

Answer #5

It could be many things she coulld be going through a faze us women are very hormonal she coulld be stressed, tired, not as sexually attracted to you as she was. I woulld plan a special evening for the two of you that focuses more on her to show her its not just sex. Remind her what she means to you and that what you guys have is special. She just might want attention and if you make her happy and make her feel sexy she will start wanting to please you as well.

Answer #6

UGLY TRUTH: she’s cheating on you.

Answer #7

Dont try to make her give in too much.She might feel pressured or something is going on with her,or shes embarrassed (lack of self-confidence) or just scared (pregnancy). Insteading of seducing,try comforting her.if you want sex all the time,she might be getting into that perspective. Just ask her if she wants to talk about it or try to help a problem and just let her know she can trust you. Shes probably feeling like shes needs the romance-not lust and sex all the time. I know you have your sexual needs-but she also needs her security. Be the best man and the best boyfriend you can be and show her you are changing positively for her,if you REALLY love her. Then once she knows you really respect her,she will want you all the time. 10-15 sexual encounters per week? Wow. Understand that us ladies dont like to be in that kind of couple who is trashy and has sex all the time.Like I said,shes maybe desiring whats called “passionate romance” my friend, give her that and you will both be grateful. Change for the better. :)

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