Why is he acting like this?

I’ve been going out with a guy for nearly a year now. I used to have this really big crush on him since primary school then I asked him out when we were in Secondary school while I was off on a school trip to Paris. At first he was great, we always spoke but now he barely even speaks to me..We would go nearly 2 weeks before he calls me..What should I do? Everytime I ask him should we call it quits because it’s not fair on he just said ‘I love you. Im so sorry.’ and I forgive him everytime. Am I an idiot for forgiving him? Please help me.

Answer #1

Well…Did you ever ask him what exactly he’s sorry for? Is he just sory for the seperation? Or is there something else that he’s sorry about and can’t tell you because he doesn’t want to hurt or lose you? And next time it goes a while without talking, try calling him. If he doesn’t answer, just leave him a voicemail telling him that you miss and love him and stuff. He’ll fall for you all over again. He may be just loosing interest because of the seperation. You know? Long distance relationships are hard; reassure him that you’re still here for him and that you’re always going to be as long as he wants you to be here. =] Hope I helped! If you need anything else just ask. =]

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