why dosent he want sex?

my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and moved in together about 1 year ago I never realized how much he masterbates but honestly it dosent bother me. but lately he has been masterbating when I am ready and willing to have sex with him I even begged him for it the other night he said he wasnt in the mood and the next morning I found porno in the dvd player and I know he masterbated after I went to bed. when I try to talk to him about it he’s just like its not you, we do have sex all the time, just drop it, I dont want to talk about it. I have even told him that I am sorry and I will fix whatever the problem is I just need him to tell me what the problem is and hes always like just let it go its nothing. I feel like crap I dont understand why he dosent want me I am cute thin and very very sexual whats wrong with me???

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Answer #1

this is deffinatly not your fault I have been married for only a few months and am having the same problem and I know how you feel. but if you let it get to you it will hurt your relationship. andi know its hard not especially if hes doing it behind your back, just try to think possitivly maybe it’ll stop

Answer #2

the problem doesnt seem to be you… he masturbates often? he doesnt want to have sex?

I may be over reacting but maybe hes a “porn addict”

srsly, you described a few telltale signs and id advise you talk to him about it…

im 100% sure it isnt your fault…

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