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I'm not all that popular at school.I used to be friends with almost all of the popular kids at my school at some point in elementary.Now,we're in middle school and every thing is different.More people are getting a girlfriends or boyfriends,you need to get stuff from Hollister or Abercrombie or you're not very cool.Some of the popular kids that I see every day are actually pretty nice.I want the popular kids to talk to me a bit more.Sometimes I'll say something to someone,and they'll just look at me funny and turn away like they're embarassed to look or talk to me.It hurts me a lot when that happens and makes me think there's something wrong with me that makes me almost repulsive to them.What can I do to let them see that I'm ok to talk to?
well, I could tell you that if they don't like you that's their loss, you are truley amazing, it's just their problem. but that's not how the world works. unfortunatly they are probably embaressed to talk to you if your not popular. I used to be kinda inbetween the popular people and the unpopular and then I started hooking up all the hot popular people and throwing awesome parties, and then the popular people kinda took me in and now we run our school... yay us. that was about 5th grade though. anyway, if a popular person talks to someone who is way unpopular and someone sees it they will get critisized. they will be asked "why do you talk to her?' "eww, are you friends with her?". and we all know that popular people work hard to get where they are and stay there and they don't want their reputation shot because of somehting dumb like that. so instead of saying "yeah, I'm her friend." they will deny it and hope the other person forgets. popular people are really greedy sometimes and they will always save themselves before they save you. I suggest you start shopping at hollister, aeropostal, and abercrombie. yeah, I know that's dumb but it will really help. look at the cloths and stuff your friends have and then make it better and wear it. being beautiful is the first part to being accepted, looks are the first thing people see and it better give a good impression or youre screwed. lol. true, youre probably beautiful on the inside but no one is looking that far so get pretty on the outside too! next, good penmanship. thats just a given. also, act confident, never show shyness or whatever. be bubbly, laughy, funny, flirty and perfect. act like you own the world, be proud of who you are. now you have to do something popular people are just starting to do and it's the most important part!! you need to accept yourself! don't ever say youre too fat or to skinny, or your ugly or anything like that. your friends are going to think the same thing you think about yourself. if you hate yourself they will start to too. everyone can be gorgeous so I don't want to hear that you think youre unperfect or anything. my friends are always telling eachother how fat they are, and they obviously aren't!! so they look at me expecting me to say "god, I'm fat!" but I just laugh and say, I think I'm hot and walk away. and they are now starting to follow my trend, look up to me, and think I'm even prettier then they did before. your hot so act like it!! I hope this helped.
your fine that how transition is from one school to another just speak to people a little more less cool and the more friends you have the more popular you are
ps.Abercrombia & hollister are stupid stores they'll get over that in a few years and also the "populars" will not be popular anymore it transition
thats because there not real friends