Why don't I get any pleasure out of sex?

When me and my boyfriend ahve sex, he loves it, I pretend I do, but I dont get anything out of it at all :/ whats that mean? :?

Answer #1

maybe you’re not really ready psychologically, or your boyfriend hasn’t put you at ease, if you’re worrying I guess it may be more difficult to enjoy it. I think for women a lot more emotions are involved, that’s not to say men don’t feel anything though. Remember a good boyfriend will care about ensuring you feel comfortable, and that you’re not doing anything too soon. Your boyfriend could be inexperienced too, not know how to properly pleasure a woman. We’ve all been there :)

Answer #2

maybe youre just not used to it… try different things… like positions etc… you might be going through a phase when you dont find it enjoyable. Maybe try doing other things like using toys or something as well…
=) x

Answer #3

maybe he has not hit your spot yet? or your just not into guys could be eather or?

Answer #4

we’ve tried loads of different possitions, I just dont feel anything and his penis isn’t small either :/ :L

Answer #5

that happened to me…now im a lesbian (: much better

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