Why does it seem like every guy is the same?

because you keep letting it happen, if you just try to work it out with a guy who you think is trustworthy, and worth your time, then everything should go smooth from there, I would suggest making sure you are keeping the relationship sparky in the beginning, and throughout to maintain a positive attraction, goodluck! :]

Yeah, it sucks that a lot of guys can be that way! Maybe the next time a guy tells you he is different is tell him to prove to you he is different! I woudln’t jump into a relationship right away but be friends with him and if he proves himself and is still around to want to be with you, then it looks like you found a good guy =)

if a guy says “im different” hes not. simple as that, chat 2 him and then you decide if hes different. abstinance is the best way, dont sleep wiv him until hes earned it, that way you cant b the mate wiv benifits at least and he’ll b more in2 you if hes gotta work 4 it. trust me you hold all the power, I had an ex, major player, but I wouldnt sleep wiv him, was workin abroad at the time so you can imagine the girls throwin themselves at him, as soon as I walked in he would ignore them all, pure power. x

Hi, There are some good guys out there but at about that age all they are thinking about is sex.Some guys control it better then other.Other will lie to get it with no thought as to there partner feeling ,I am sad to say.Lots of girls seem to be very needy and just want someone to love them and get love mixed up with lust.But saying NO to a guy untill you are sure he is not out just for a score will realy make him think more of you.If he real cares for you then he will wait. If not then he will move to the nexy target.And you will be better off.Thats my take on it from watching the same thing happen over and over. I hope you find a good guy ..