Why do men like sluts?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. We were living together until recently when I had a stupid moment and broke up with him and asked him to move out. For a month he would still come over and wanted to work things out. Then right before Halloween, I went to a party at my friends house. The very same night he was invited to his ex-girlfriend’s aunt’s house for a bonfire. Of course the ex was there and they ended up talking and having sex. I was very stupid when I broke up with him and had every intention of making up. I was just waiting for the right moment. I have talked to him about it and now he’s confused as to which of us he wants to be with. This girlfriend is from 10 years ago when they were both teenagers, and they haven’t seen each other since then. On top of all that, she cheated on him multiple times when they were togther, once even with his best friend. I feel like I’m losing the battle here. He spends lots of time with her and none with me. What do I do???

Answer #1

i agree with the above, and it sounds like you only want him back cos hes got some one eles, as for her cheating on him when they were together befor, that was 10 year ago they will have both growen up a lot since then, sorry hun but you cant kick some one out for nothing then wach them beg for you back for a month, then as soon as they fined some one eles exspect him to come running back just cos you click your fingers

Answer #2

If you want honest advice, you get honest advice. Don’t blame others for trying to help you by saying what they think is right, even if you don’t hold the same values or ideas.

Answer #3

There is nothing you can do, and liluxo is right, calling her a slut is just immature, she didnt do anything wrong! Your the one that wanted to be stupid and dramatic and break up with him. Wat was he supposed to do? he didnt no you had every intention of making up, you cant toy with peoples feelings like that, if you never wanted to break up then why cause all this drama? so your ex went out and happened to meet up with his ex gf again, he is allowed, you dumped him! they ended up having sex…….oh well! he can he is single now and maybe he realised that 10 years is a long time and she has prob grow up alot in that time and thinks maybe it will work this time around, it has been 10 years so he is confused whether to come back to your immature games or try again with his ex. My advice…….leave him alone! he needs time to work out who he wants to be with, and he is prob spending heaps of time with her becos he hasnt seen her in ages and he has been seeing you alot! just leave him alone, he needs to work it out for himself.

Answer #4

First of all, calling her a slut isn’t going to do you much good. Secondly, if it seems like he’s going to choose her, you lost your chance when he kept trying with you for a month after you broke up. It’s extremely hard to have someone break up with you and still try for even a week after, and this guy did it for a month for you! He probably wants you to sweat a little, I don’t think you treated him very fairly and now he’s got the upperhand. You need to let him decide who he wants to be with, and if he chooses her then respect that- it just might be too late. He could also be tired out from having to try so hard with you after you two broke up, and having you be “waiting for the right moment”. So, he may want something new or different, which is why he’d pursue another girl. Good luck.

Answer #5

my boyfriend recently sent me a picture of his body male part. I told him I did not like to send or receive those kind of pictures…and he got cold and distant and now I wonder if he likes a decent girlfriend with principles or prefers a girl who will permit him to corrupt her. Supposedly, he was thinking of me when this happened and was excited…but I still don’t feel like I should engage him in those kind of activities. Do men take women who participate in these activities seriously? I always thought it cheapend the relationship. Somebody give me some advice.

Answer #6

Maybe you all can go f*ck yourselves. He realized that he was stupid for trying with her again. I see no reason why you locoluna have to freaking yell at somebody and you can both sit there and think I’m being immature for calling her a slut, but it’s the truth. Her own family even says she’s still doing the same thing she used to do. So thank you for making me feel so welcome to ask a question about a difficult situation. I’ll never use this site again.

Answer #7

he’s your boyfriend - long story short he asked you for pics - its what floats his boat send them to him or he will get them from somebody else

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