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why do I have feelings for my cousin?

Hi all, heres my problem first time I’ve seen my cousin in 5yrs(shes now 18 im 19) and at first site I was hooked everything about her is amazingly perfect, her smile her looks, her personality… everything I’ve looked for in someone she has, I gotta feeling she may think the same way cause that same night I kept noticing her looking at me and when I turned to face her she quickly looked away, she did flirt a little that night as I was also lol ><”.

we havnt seen ea other in a few days and I cant stop thinking about her… she wants to hang out this weekend and im not sure what might happen. im to scared to ask her how she feels and telling her how I feel, I might just get to know her more before I do anything, its prob just a crush or something cause we havnt seen ea other in a long time

yes lots of people say its dumb course… yet others say go for it and see what happens, what should I do… yes ill prob get commants on its gross havin sex with her leaves a 2% chance at havin deformed babies etc but I got no plans on that atm or getting married, its just soemthing thats come into my head and I cant get it out

anyways enough babbling thx for your time

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Answer #1

Ok so what I say is you cant control what you feel for someone else.Love is love and age has nothing to do with it and being related doesnt either.Thats just a label and if you really like someone I think you should go for it even if it is you family member.I think that you should flirt with her and stuff and see how she reacts and then have a serious talk about that and see how see feels about you and then take it from there.Good Luck!

Answer #2

Your not alone, I fancy one of my cousins. I want to ride her everytime I see her I get horny seeing herr. So go for it ;)

Answer #3

okayy .. honestly sorry , but I think its gross…

but its true what kissielove said .. ‘’Love is love and age has nothing to do with it and being related doesnt either.’’

if anything happens between you and her you will be judged.. it might not be fair, but thats what will happen.. people will laugh at you, call you names, say bad things about you… and im not saying I think that they should but to be perfectly honest I probably would too if I knew someone who got with there cousin.

but if you really like her and you think you can take the shit your gunna get from it by all means go ahead.. but just be prepared

hope I dont sound really mean,, goodluck x

Answer #4

I know you may like her but she is your cozin its kinda gross :(

Answer #5

Thats incest and if the two of u have kids they could come out deformed/

Answer #6

about deformed kids, not really true.. very slight posibility but only something very small would be be wrong with the child, i anything…. not with cousins,in a lot of religions you’v to marry your cousins.. and its very popular in travelling communitys. its just that you’ll be pretty harshly judged by some people ..

Answer #7

ok its been 3months now since i made this post and i only just seen my cousin for the last 2 weeks while i stayed at her house, i found out after 3 days of teasing ea other we endded up kissing, later that night she told me that the night we first meet 3months ago she also had the same feelings i had >.>” during the 2 weeks iv found out alot about her and we have so many things in common atm we just taking it ez and seeing how things go, just sucks she has a BF too ; / anyway GL to every1 else that has feelings for ur cousin =) ill enjoy what i have with mine =D

Answer #8

ok its been 3months now since i made this post and i only just seen my cousin for the last 2 weeks while i stayed at her house, i found out after 3 days of teasing ea other we endded up kissing, later that night she told me that the night we first meet 3months ago she also had the same feelings i had >.>” during the 2 weeks iv found out alot about her and we have so many things in common atm we just taking it ez and seeing how things go, just sucks she has a BF too ; / anyway GL to every1 else that has feelings for ur cousin =) ill enjoy what i have with mine =D

Answer #9

ok its been 3months now since i made this post and i only just seen my cousin for the last 2 weeks while i stayed at her house, i found out after 3 days of teasing ea other we endded up kissing, later that night she told me that the night we first meet 3months ago she also had the same feelings i had >.>” during the 2 weeks iv found out alot about her and we have so many things in common atm we just taking it ez and seeing how things go, just sucks she has a BF too ; / anyway GL to every1 else that has feelings for ur cousin =) ill enjoy

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