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Why didn't I cum?

My boyfriend was fingering me and we were both half naked and really horny. This was the first time we’d done anything together and I’d never been fingered before. Could this be why? I really like him and felt comfortable with him. What can I do in future if I dont cum again? please help

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Answer #1

My boyfriend has fingered me a like 5 times now and he has never made me cum. I guess you should show or tell the guy where to touch. but for some reason Im kind of afraid to. It might just be because it was your first time. or that he just wasnt touching the right spot. If it doesnt happen the next time, try to direct his hand where to go.

Answer #2

Not all Girls can cum all the time. Just relax and try to have a good time. The only way I can get my girlfriend to cum is to perform oral sex. Get him to do it to you and show thim your clit, and your good to go.

Answer #3

Its totally normal that you didnt cum. Alot of women cant orgasm easily, and the fact that you wer probably nervous about it being the first time of that affected it too. just explain to your boyfriend that you enjoy what he’s doing. You may just have to take time to get to know each other’s bodies better before you can climax. I’ve been having sex w/my boyfriend for over 2 months, and I still havent cum yet, but I still enjoy sex and other things with him. ORgasm isnt everything.

Answer #4

Thanks for your help I was really worried! x

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