why cant I have sex even though I want it?

I have been around abuse all my life from my parents and boyfriends. I was raped when I was 15 I am now 18. I have talked about it and I thought I had come to terms with it. I know that I will never forget about about it but I know that I deserve to live my life to the fullest.I have met this awesome guy that I trust and feel so strongly for but I just cant seem to stop viewing sex in a negetive way and after im fighting back the tears. this is just so confusing because I want to but I just cant seem to enjoy it. is there anyway to move on from this? its just so fustrating because I can trust a guy and be alone with a guy even though I have been hurt by 99% of the guys in my life just not have sex that I want! please help me!!!

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Answer #1

well trust and believe that things will get easier, but you need to seek professional help. I’ve been there, raped at 13 and again at 14..and I was also abused in a prior relationship.being a victim of a rape is something we never come to “terms” with, but when you become a survivor of a rape, things do get easier!!! I know how hard it can be to open up to a man sexually and mentally, but I’m proof it can happen!! maybe you should try talking to this awesome guy about whats going on and why, I’m sure he’ll understand… just don’t give up, because sex can be a beautiful and an amazing thing and who knows it could be great with this awesome guy!! Good luck

Answer #2

thanx heaps:)

Answer #3

seek professional help.

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