O.k. For the last year or so my boyfriend has cut off most contact. aka kissing, hand holding, even hugs. He and I spend as much time as we can together for the distance we live apart. We have sex each time we get together although there are times we just do dinner and walk around. I do know that almost 2 years ago he had gotten lung cancer. And that he's extra cautious about getting sick/infections now. Anyone have any help how I can get my boyfriend to touch me again? I have asked him a few times but he hasn't wanted to. Btw I brush my teeth and toung regularly... He also was overseas. I know he has PTSD.
maybe he found someone else while you two were apart?? or maybe he is just having a lot of trouble with the PTSD. thats really sad...hope things get better for the both of you
I dont really know what you can do. This is just a strange situation.