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Why am I so lonely?

I feel so lonely. I feel like no one really wants me? no one calls me no one really talks to me! why? all I want is acceptance and people to want to spend time with me. why am I always the onje who has to make the first call, suggestion, and effort? how can I cure my loneliness??

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Answer #1

Very good answer ‘thelawtman’ I was going to say the same things.

Did you ever think that you might be a leader personality? It is very true that the strong independent personalities are most likely the leaders in groups, makes the first call, has suggestions and good ideas and can stimulate others to do things. So, my friend, look up and smile because you are unique!

When I was going thru my depression a very dear friend on mine, who was my doctor since I was three months old, is the spiritual leader in my church, and my second Dad, told me that when people look inside themselves all they can see is the darkness that problems cause , but if you turn your eyes to heaven and keep your eyes on God (who is pure, holy, and perfect light) that He will fill you with His light and the darkness will fade away being replaced with God’s glorious light and His peace. That’s the best advice I ever got.

Take care, God bless.

Answer #2

my theory is that you attract people that reflect off of your personality. if you allow things to happen rather than forcefully waiting for it, it’ll come in time. friends will come and go but stay positive and things will open up to you and youll find things about yourself that you never thought you had to offer people.

Answer #3

I caNT DRIVE YET. AND EVEN IF I COULD SOMEHOW LEAVE THE HOUSE, I would have no one to hang out with

Answer #4

because your a lone..duh..try leaving the house

Answer #5

well I’m alone too. just have the biggest fight w/ my b/f. we probably going to break up. this pass aug 1 ‘09 was or 8th yr anniversary. nothing I can do to change this. sometime I feel like I just want to die. but I know for sure that that’s not the solution. just have to think that life goes on no matter how much it hurts. just remember that we are put here for a reason.

Answer #6

I’m lonely. Lonely as hell. I know it’s not an answer, but snce I can relate and have nobody to tell, I thought it’d be nice for you to know that you’re not the only one…

Answer #7

since I google why I am so lonely I also feel lonely. why it is so hard for me to make friendship with myself? why I do feel as I have nothing to offer people that love me. even though I have very good education and very good character. I never think bad of others.

Answer #8

Im going threw the same think,, “Try Leaving the House” ? yaaa i9m always out looking for someone to make friends with AND I MEET NOBODY even if i do see someone they just ingore me im Always out the house looking for someone to befriend and i found my Self in the SAME CYCLE were its Walking out my house, walking threw the park, sitting for 20 minutes See someone walk by and Say Hi and Just get Ingored so i walk to the Next park and The Same thing and then befor u know it I find myself Back at my house IN THE SAME MOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WANNA KILL MY SELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer #9

you are a loner buddy pats back i suggest GET OUT OF YOUR HOUSE AND FIND SOMEONE WITH THE SAM STUFF AS YOU AND BE-FRIEND THEM…oh…sorry caps ^_^ i wasn’t yelling or anything…and i dont want to go back and re-type it :P

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